Please help friend problem.?

Question

ok so i'm 13 years old but pretty mature and i have this friend and her name is " Melissa" and well i have this tankini swimsuit( im not allowed a bikini) any ways my friend made this mean comment about my swimsuit saying i'm trying to be busty and she just don't understand why i can't enjoy being a kid. any ways these comments really really hurt me. because i'm not trying to be busty and i enjoy being a kid. for now but anyways my friend is 12 almost 13 anyways shes not as mature and well i just don't know what to say to her anymore. she said this to my friend and my friend told it to me. please just give me some advice please for dealing with my friend. thanks i will give out best answer.

Answer 1

She sounds like she's really immature and shallow, and probably jealous! Ignore the comments, at least you're not wearing a string bikini or something. It sounds very modest, actually. If I were you, I'd distance myself from this girl a bit, she might get more mean as time goes on. You can still hang out with her and stuff if she's someone you enjoy being around, but I wouldn't be her best buddy. But seriously, don't worry about the mean comments. That just means that she's insecure and is trying to mess up your confidence too. Good luck, and wear whatever you want!!!