Please help. has this ever happened to anyone? kind of personal ?

Question

okay this is kind of embarrassing and such a private thing but i need to know if there is anyone else who has experienced this or feels this way. Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for a year and half now and we have come so close to having s*x soo many times and im totally comfortable with him and everything and i know he loves me but it seems like every time we get really close my whole body tenses up i dont do it on purpose and i know that if it keeps happening it just wont work and i try my best to relax but i just cant..has this ever happened to anyone? and do you think that this will just go away in time and maybe im just truly not ready yet?

Answer 1

it's probably because you're not ready yet. when you're completely ready, your body will allow the progression of s*x to flow. until then, just enjoy what you are ready for. don't force your body into being ready for s*x until it really is.

Answer 2

I think this might be because your body is telling you that you just aren't ready. Maybe you should wait...

Answer 3

I agree, you're not ready yet, don't be embarrassed about it. it happens all the time.