Please help...honest only please (even if it hurts)?

Question

I don't have any friends & I'm tired of people making fun of me. I tried to get honest opinions by asking for help for my "friend" but that didn't work b/c people thought it was disrespectful to post my friend's pic w/o their knowledge. Please tell me the truth & what I can do so kids stop making fun of me & I feel good about myself.

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Answer 1

you look fine!! Of course you are a girl! LOL. but whats the problem? they make fun of your face?

Answer 2

nothing's wrong with you. the only thing i would say would be to fix your hair. there have been points in my life where i didn't have any friends but i know nothing is wrong with me.

Answer 3

I understand how you feel. I have been made fun of all my life,to this day,I still have self esteem issues. But I think you are pretty. All you need to do is fix your hair up,maybe put on a little bit of make-up. You do not need to do much. People who make fun of you are jealous. They don't like the way they look and want to look better. Don't listen to those people. I know its hard not to listen,but just ignore them. For those who make fun of you,they should realize,you may become their boss one day,or they may need you one day,and then what?

Answer 4

Listen hun, no matter how good you look on the outside, if you don't feel good about yourself on the inside nothing will make the least bit of difference.

How you feel about yourself is what you project and what others pick up on. You FEEL (emphasis) like an ugly duckling victim and that is exactly how others will see you.

Stop it right now!!! Why would anyone else like you when you don't like you? Get working on your self esteem, no one but no one is better than you, stop being so negative and concentrate on positive thinking. Replace every bad thought you think of yourself with a good one, give yourself a hug everyday and appreciate all your qualities.

Smile at everyone, hold your head high, be kind to others, befriend others, work hard at your studies, set yourself small goals and work to achieve them.

Kids make fun of you? Laugh at them, they don't "hurt" you, you just let them because what they think of you means more right now than what you think of yourself. Turn that thinking right around, what they think is not what makes you, it is what you think of yourself.

I will not be sycophantic and say you "look" beautiful because I do think you could make more of yourself. but that is only on the outside. You could have the biggest  "makeover" in the world but unless you are happy with who you are it is only window dressing.

Make YOU your "best friend" and others will flock to you.

Good luck hun, real "beauty" truly shines from within. x.

Answer 5

listen you don't have to change yourself for anybody. Youre perfect the way god created you. Work on your self esstem, once you accept yourself and know who you are and your beautiful everyone will see it as well.

Answer 6

The world is an orchestra and to play music it needs the oboes, and the piccolos.  You are of worth, you just haven't discovered it yet.

Answer 7

you can dress w. abercrmobie and fitch clothes, take the galsses off and wear contacts instead m and do something w.t hat hair, i dont know, buzz it, so you will look musculine,work out

yea the wig, i mean the hair needs to go , PRONTO!

Answer 8

are you serious? you look beautiful! usually people only make fun of others to make themselves feel good. they are completely stupid and have no idea what they're talking about! You are beautiful! and God made you just the way you are! How could a God so big and wonderful create anything ugly?

Answer 9

I would say...first of all....why are they making fun of you?,...you look perfectly normal.....What are you good at?....what are your hobbies?....focus on that and see where that leads.....sometimes you have to "pick back"....so they know that you will simply not just take it.....To have friends - you have to be a friend.....I would think if you saw someone you wanted to be friends with ...maybe strike up a conversation....day hi   ..whatever...if you try smiling more that helps as well.....I dunno....just be yourself with a good attitude and people WILL be attracted to you.....normally I answer questions like this with sarcasm and without mercy...BUT....there was something about your picture and the way you wrote the question that softened my normally snarkiness....you must have some gift. I 'll even tell you my real name- Mark

Answer 10

Nothing is wrong with you!

If I knew you, I'd be your friend : (

Answer 11

The only thing you need is a nice perm and cut, or some really nice braids and a little make-up.  You are attractive, you just have not learned yet how to work with what you have.  I am more concerned about your self-esteem, and self-worth.  You have fantastic lips, eyebrows, and I like your glasses.  After you make changes in your life you will probably have to make changes in your friends, also.  But that will probably be a good thing.  A new beginning can be a good thing.  I wish you the best with this.

Answer 12

To tell you the truth people like that don't know that the way they treat people hurts us so much. Don't ever feel bad about the way they are to you.They don't understand that what they are doing and saying hurts us so much.And don't cry and get upset about them don't look at them but just be your self and some day things will work out for you.You will make lots of friends soon just don't give up on your self .God will help you out to make lots of friends.And always be happy ever where you go in life.