Please help! i cant change my piercing!?

Question

ok, ive had a vch and its healed. i wanted to change the balls on the barbell, but i cant unscrew them! for now i can deal, but im going to have to put a barbell that fits [this ones too big] in soon, and i cant unscrew the balls.. i cant go back to the piercer- i got it done in another state and i dont have money to make an appt with a local shop and im single so i dont have a boyfriend or girlfriend to help, i dont have any close friends either..

how can i make it looser i dont wanna use plyers or hurt myself im terrifed of ripping it out..

the girl who peirced it screwed it on, she didnt use any special methods or anything cuz i watched,

my mom doesnt know or id ask her,

and if i made an appt with a gyn id have to pay for that too..

Answer 1

Take a hot bath, so loosen up any lymphy crust (nice) and use latex gloves. That will normally work. Otherwise you'll have to go find a piercer. They have special pliers..

Answer 2

Try wearing rubber gloves to give yourself a better hold on the jewelry.  

Answer 3

thats happened to me dont worry just calm down wipe your hands off or get a towel and just sit down and mess with it a little bit. eventually it should loosen up and they should come off