Please help!!! i need some really good advice about family issues!!!!!?

Question

ok this is a really long story to tell so just stay with me! ok first of all my dad just died like 5 months ago and it is really hard on me plus im only 15 years old....i am not getting any help for it at the moment and like i said it is really hard. next my grandparents are at each others throats and i dont mean like just the occasional fighting i mean dead at each others throats like my grandpa took my grandmas car away from her bcuz he says he is trying to teach her a lesson....but wait thats not all tha same grandpa that took away my grandmas car may be dating my (i guess you could call her) step aunts mother!!!! is that not a lot to take in or wat??? well for me it is so if you could just leace me some suggestions on wat tha h**l im supposed to be doing to deal with all of this stress...oh yea to add more to it my dad died a drug overdose and we think my former step mother could have killed him... thank you for all your help!!!!!

Answer 1

Talk to a counselor.  They should have one at your school.

Answer 2

Talk to some one about this, you are only 15 and although you are in the middle of it, you should not be burdened with it all.

Talking to someone might help relieve the stress a little.

If you are living with your grandparents then this must be very difficult, but try not to focus on it and find someone to talk to that you trust.

Good Luck

By the way, I am so sorry about your Dad, my children's father died when they were 16 & 13 and it is a terrible thing to go through.

Answer 3

hi there,

im very sorry to hear that. well, my advice to u is just dont bother what is ur grandpa,ur grandma or anyone else think or do. u r too young to solve their problems. u just concentrate on ur studies. if u start to concentrate more on ur family problem, then u may go crazy.u may dont know what to do and feel stressed every minute. it  may effect u psychologically. let them solve their own problems. u must think abt ur future and not ur grandma and grandpa coz they're already old and have gone through their young age. so u must be calm, and pray for ur fathers soul. study hard because it may determine ur future. all the best.....!