Please help i want him back ?

Question

three weeks ago my bf and I broke up

his parents told him that we needed to brake up

this is what he told me was why.

“all the mind games they don’t trust you”

I said I understand

on the inside I wanted to tell him.

“I only did those two times to see how much

I could trust your parents and it turns out that I can’t

they got into my personal life and that I'm not sure i can

have in my life ever I'm sorry"

Now I want him back I want his parents to trust me

I truly want to be with him

Please please help me

Answer 1

I don't know if I'd want to have someone  in my life who's parents can control his.

Clear to me, if you do want him back start thinking how to please them not him.

No relationship for me, thanks!

Answer 2

Sometimes it is best to spare yourself the pain and forget about it and move on.  I fell hard for this guy earlier this year... I tried to make it work with him... but it didn't work.  He recently just completely dropped me... not even a friendship and he has my house key and everything.  He got MARRIED.  We were still "together" he didn't even properly break up with me.  I know, different situation but the same lesson... MOST of the time it is about the other person, not you.  For a while I felt like "why can't I be good enough for him" then I realized that it was his issue not mine.  Same thing goes with your ex's parents.  Maybe you aren't the perfect girlfriend they envisioned for him but no one will ever be.  Whatever the mind games are that you did... owell so what? Lol... It is a part of growing up - you make mistakes and learn from them.  If his parent's can't see that and if he can't either... it isn't worth it.  Find someone else... or better yet DON'T and just enjoy other aspects of your life and let a good guy (or girl) find you.  

Oh and another thing... don't EVER... never ever NEVER NEVER tell a guy how you REALLY feel.  I don't care if the little pitter patter in your little bitty heart skips... If you think you would die with out him... whatever... don't tell them.  I learned that lesson the hard way.  lol... guys are EVIL and they will use it against you LOL!!