Please help.im 13 year old girl..?

Question

i don't know why but recently i have been having heart pains. I'm not over weight I'm 5'3 and weigh 104 pounds. it feels like my heart is literally empty. then my breath quickens and i find it hard to breath. then i get those "pre-cry" breaths. i also have been having thoughts of suicide.. no one knows. not my "parents" or my so called friends. its also hard to swallow. and rarely(but i do get) get a irregular pulse. i just feel so lonely. like I'm missing a part of me. i don't know whats going on. also people wont stop labeling me "emo" or "goth" i tell them that i don't follow them but they just shove me off. and make up rumors about me like "i cant talk" or "shes so quite because shes a murder" i don't know whats going on. i don't want to tell everybody cus normally i don't talk at all. and if i get a paper cut my parents freak. help me!

Answer 1

I agree with your first answer. God is there for you.

It sounds like you are having trouble with anxiety and panic. Dont hesitate to talk to your parents and tell them everything that you are going through. They love you and will take care of you.

Answer 2

just be yourself but open up more. more people will like you and treat you like a human if you just talk to them and be more social. maybe you're very depressed because you need something new or fun in your life. i mean i've had suicidal thoughts when i was younger and also very quiet. but then i opened up to people and i have way more friends and around 5 best friends who are amazingly entertaining and care about me.

p.s. i swear i'm not making this up but i'm 5'3 and weigh 105 pounds haha. but i'm 18 years old

Answer 3

Ok calm down.  I think what you are talking about is a panic attack.  Just talk to your parents or if you do not feel comfortable with that then you should talk to your guidance counselor.  She can either get you to a real phsyciatrist and then they will either prescribe you some anti-depressants or talk you through it.

Answer 4

You're having all these emotional issues which are all too common among teenagers due to hormonal imbalance and raging hormones with puberty.  It's common to have diffferent mood swings esp in your adolescent stage.  You should see the school nurse or school psychologist .  And even tell your mom.  She will  be glad if you confide  and trust her.  After all, mother knows best!

All the symptoms you describe are  all anxiety attacks. There's nothing physically wrong with you.  Maybe you lack some self- confidence and allow those people to pick on you.

Some poeple can be so mean.  Tell them that you are going to report them to your cousin Vinny who's gonna come and kick their buttts in.  It's time to call in the troops.  Disclose all of these problems to mom so she'll  look into it.  

Good Luck!!!

Answer 5

you definitely need to talk to someone you feel comfortable with. if you have had a plan for the way you would commit suicide-i urge you to see your doctor. it is normal at your age to have these physical symptoms with what you are going through. you may have a chemical imbalance and are having panic attacks. there might be other factors in your life that are overwhelming and hard to handle-you also are at an age when hormones and growth spurts are going on. please see a counselor or someone you trust, family doctor maybe and tell them about this. suicidal thoughts are not to be taken lightly and you need to tell someone. there is only one you-you are here for a reason, you are unique and needed-do not lose faith in yourself. accept yourself and love yourself. try to take deep breaths and calm yourself when that happens. please talk to someone and know that you are in my prayers....

Answer 6

Your probably experiencing some anxiety and yes you can feel chest pain or "heart pain" when you have anxiety and or depression. But you should go to the doctors just to be on the safe side.

Answer 7

go to god he will give you ur answer

or just go to skool one day and talk to everybody and dress in hollister or something

Answer 8

Sounds like you have anxiety...good luck =/

Try to get your parents into some counseling or even go to your school couselor.

Answer 9

I know how you feel, and in fact, I've had some of those same feelings today. You might be depressed. I would talk to a school counselor or someone you trust. Also, I wouldn't take their comments that seriously, it's just middle school. I think if I had taken people's comments about me seriously, I would be worse off than I am.

Answer 10

I know how you feel. I'm 13 too, and I've had feelings of suicide lately too.... Someone I met believes I have had a person I loved dearly in another life and now I miss him in this one. I don't know if I nessisarily believe that but I know I just want this feeling to end. I've tried praying and maybe god will give me the answer. Only time will tell. Maybe we're just going through puberty (doubt it, but I hope so). I hope we both find the answers to our sadness. Good luck....

Answer 11

asthma?

Answer 12

u say u dont wanna tell everybody...well congratulations u just told the whole world. personally, i think u should either tell ur parents and go to the doctor, or just talk to someone who's really close to u. i'm pretty sure that'll help

Answer 13

You really should talk to your parents about your situation...

I think its sad that a 13 year old girl like you can be contemplating

suicide. You really should talk to them... talk to your mother she will

understand you and. seek help. Your parents are your best friends till the end.

Answer 14

it could be anxiety or panic attacks, heart palpitations.

go here for palpitations

http://www.medicinenet.com/palpitations/...

....page 3 tells you symptoms...and you can do more research...go to a doctor and tell them everything, even the suicidal thoughts because they can help you. No worries. And that feeling of emptiness sucks I know, but try to find things that make you who you are and focus on them....build on them and become a stronger you. You're going to meet crappy people and some may even be your family, but if you focus on you and what makes you happy....you'll be able to blow them off in no time. Remember to do what makes you happy and feel pround of it...you're in charge of who you are and what you do...if other people don't like it tough S***. They don't have to follow in your foot steps and vice versa. You are a beautiful individual of your own and you have to find your voice. Stand up to them even if you start off small. Tell them that you're not what they say you are and that their stereotypical judgements are pointless. Don't let them define who you are.

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