Please help im scared for school?

Question

Hi, I'm still in HS and i really don't want to go back in a few days, because there's a lot of mean kids. and in middle school i always used to get picked on, but not anymore ( yayy ). but I'm scared that its going to be like middle school again. i have no classes with any of my friends, and of course with my luck i have to eat lunch alone in the library and if the library is closed which it usually is then who knows where i will go, i hate that so much! i talked to my guidance counselor and she didn't help shes like OH WE CANT CHANGE IT. d**n her. i know it could be worst and i should shut up and just go and s***w everyone else, but I'm just scared its going to be like middle school again. i have been trying not to think about it, but its hard. what can i do to stop worrying if someone is going to pick on me again? what would you do? how can i have more confidence and stop caring about it so much? THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING ! d**n IT SCHOOL SHOULD BE ILLEGAL.

Answer 1

kill them with kindness hunny bunny

school is just a place where kids think they have freedome to pick on kids who are really good.  Don't let them and they will think that they don't do anything to you.  Just plow through it baby

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Answer 2

Aww.. it sounds like you're in a rough situation.. so, let me see if I can help..

First, if you weren't picked on last year, chances are, you won't be picked on this year. They usually pick and harass the freshmen, so if you've gone this far, chances are, you're going to be ok.

Also, remember to carry yourself with confidence. I know it sounds silly, esp when you're not feeling brave, but when you act brave, you'll feel brave, and people are less likely to mess with you. .

See if you can find someone else who seems shy and then say hello to them. Talk to another shy person is a nice way to do things, they won't talk alot, but they'll appreciate you talking to them, and then you'll have someone to eat with and hang out with.

I know it's tough, but it'll be ok.. :-)

Answer 3

lmao just talk to ppl and most ppl dont get pick on unless ur a fishy  

Answer 4

high school can be scary. i used to get picked on in middle school too. most of the kids in my grade either thought they were better than everyone else or they just didnt talk to ya. when i got into high school,  i didnt get picked on anymore. and if i did which was rare, i would just ignore the person picking on me. if they have nothing better to do than to pick on other people that just means they are no better than you or me.  just take care of yourself physically and mentally. also hang around your friends when you get the chance. my daughter goes 9th grade  this year, but shes ok because where she lives 7th and 8th are in the high school. be the best you can be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck

Answer 5

First of all think positive, don't let them get you down. Kids can be mean, they only do that to make themselves feel better. They are insecure. Always treat people they way you would want to be treated. Try and introduce yourself to some new people if possible. Let them know how wonderful you are. If you let them see how much it bothers you when they pick on you, they will continue to do it. Eventually they will get what is coming to them, what comes around goes around. Always stay true to yourself and be yourself. You will meet other friends, just keep trying. Good Luck ;)

Answer 6

Well, maybe you should join some after school activities where you can meet a lot of different people who might share your interests. You could also try opening up and talk to people. Set your fears aside and try to set a different tone to this school year!  

Answer 7

you know you could do homeschooling if you really hate high school its an option but high school won't be like middle school again trust me I had a hard time too back then but it gets better. you will make friends just relax and try to have a good time don't worry about it once you get there it won't be so bad.