Please help. im so depresesed and i dont know what to do.

Question

im rele scared. i want to kill myself. my mom told me that she cant wait til i leave and that ive made her life terrible. i ve tried to turn to God but i just am having a rele hard time even believing that hes real anymoer. ive been a Christian all my life, but i just feel so mad at Him right now for not helping me out or showing me that its gonna be alright. please dont be mean. im really having a hard time and i have held on through so many things. please dont say suck it up. becaues ive tried and i have. nobody i know even knows that im unhappy because ive hidden my feelings for so long. i just dont even know what to do anymore. please. please help me.

Answer 1

Hey, I am so sorry you are going through a hard time. I know how you feel, I have been in your shoes. It may feel like there is nothing that will help you and that you will never get better. But the truth is, things will get better. I promise. Your mother is not a good person to talk to. Nobody, and I mean nobody, should ever encourage you to commit suicide like she did. You are worth too much to leave this world early. Please do what I did and talk to a counselor or psychiatrist. Ask for antidepressants. I am taking them now and I feel like my old self again. You may need to try different medications and dosages, but you will eventually feel less and less depressed. Don't wait any longer, because you are a danger to yourself. Just do one thing, and that is to get help. Good luck, and I hope that everything goes well for you.

Answer 2

I am sorry you are having a difficult time in your life.  Depression is a hard thing to deal with.  You should see a physician and make sure you are healthy.  You should exercise as much as possible, as this produces endorphins and is a natural mitigater of depression.  Try to do whatever you can to help your mom and to improve your relationship with her.  God has given you the gift of free will, so you cannot depend on Him "fixing" anything for you.  It will have to come from your efforts.  Good luck.

Answer 3

hang in there babe.... seeking god is a great step. ask your local church about any youth group services. It's a great way to make friends,strengthen your relationship with god, and get away. If you really feel depressed and are having serious suicidal thoughts, go seek help.. maybe some meds will help (LAST RESORT).  

Answer 4

Hanna whatever you do please DO NOT HURT YOURSELF. Don't try to make other people suffer. Turning to a religion is good but don't lose your faith. Always have faith in something, that something good will happen the next day. God makes everything happen for the reason and if you feel he is purposely trying to make your life miserable you are wrong. God controls us and our ways of life but we have control of our emotions.

I suggest writing a letter to someone you think does/doesn't want to hear your problems. Cry, scream, do whatever you need to when you are writing it. Put it in your drawer, and after a week read it and see if you feel different. Write on the letter goals you would like to achieve by the end of the week when you pick up that letter again.

Do you want to get a stronger relationship with your mom?

Do you want to start talking to people?

My suggestion is foremostly, go to a counselor. Feel free to email me if you need anymore help. I will be here to talk with you if you'd like.

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Answer 5

talk to a friend. or you can email me if you want [e-mail] because i know what it feels like to be that down, and it helps so much to have someone to talk to.  

Answer 6

Please dont try killing yourself ok.

If you want you can talk to me. But dont hurt yourself i wouldnt tell you this if i hadnt gone through the same I am about your same age probably and my mom told me the same things. But now i understand that we were going through a bad time. And we needed eachother. Talk to her tell how you feel, tell her that she hurt you, If she is really mean and said that you ruined her life go to your aunts or friends and ask for help. I tried killing myself and believe me it isnt funny i ended up praying for my life after i realised all the things i had to do.

Answer 7

talk to a close friend. tell us what is going on that makes your life unhappy.  

Answer 8

Well, i just gotta say, dont take your life, dont turn to drugs. I use to do that and i got no where, some parents are jsut .. bad people, do what you can to avoid them, talk with some friends or just go out and make some friends. and yes you should try to talk to God, he does listen and he does help you. if you would like to hear some about god feel free to send me a pm on yahoo msgr, ill tell ya all i know.. [e-mail]

Answer 9

First go talk to a counselor.  Preferably a psychiatrist if you can see one.  They have great meds for depression now.

You say you are a Christian and believe in God.  Thats great.  Continue praying.  

You said you are having doubts about God.  Think about it this way.  If the world was easy, would you or anyone have any desire to go to Heaven.  Probably, but not near as much.  God allows trials to be put in our life so we will desire to go to Heaven.

Answer 10

first of all please don't hurt yourself.  life may seem tough to you right now, but you need to ride out the waves.  there are good times to be had.  please seek a friend or professional (psychiatrist or social worker) to speak to about how you're feeling.  it will help you through this.  you need to let out these feelings, it's the first step to recovery.  i hope you get the help you need.  

Answer 11

I don't know why your mom would say such a thing. She must be frustrated. Don't hide your feelings...tell someone how you feel. Tell someone who will be kind to you. And see your doctor. You can feel better...you just need some kind strong people on your side right now. I hope things work out for you and I am sorry you are hurting right now.  

Answer 12

You should let someone you trust know how you feel, holding it in will make you feel worse.

Answer 13

if u have some music player, listen to that alot and take ur mind off killin g urself.  watch a funny movie.  theres alot more to life than letting one person bring u down.  (ur mom)

Answer 14

hey,

im really sorryof what your going threw. life can be very hard at times. talk to people that you can trust in. they might cheer you up. i hate life sometimes too. try and going to see a social worker then. please don't kill yourself!!! i would like to help...

take care of yourself

Jeremy

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Answer 15

Hanna, my granddaughters name is Hanna,  and if she were you,  I would tell her that everything will be o.k. and that God does love you and so do I. Please find someone to talk to and try and calm down. You then know that if you do something to yourself , that it will be something that you will have to answer for. Call or go and talk to your minister, or go talk to a friend, ask and see if there is someone you can maybe spend the night with, just for a change, and maybe to clear the air, so to speak, tomorrow will maybe be a better day for you. You didn't say how old you are, but you should be able to get some help, good luck and God bless..