my son is 11weeks old and i had a rough time giving birthto him and afterwards i lost loads of blood and could not hold him for a week after i had him, i felt like i did not bond with him and was in and out of hospital. i am feeling much better in myself now and my parents look after him one weekend a month so i have time with my partner. the problem is i live 60miles away from family and friends and never go out unless i need shopping or baby has appointment, i feel really depressed and feel like i dont love my baby the way i should, i care for him and would never ever hurt him in a million years but when my parents had him for 3 nights i did not miss him even though i lied and said i did as i did not want to look like a bad mother whereas my partner missed him like mad. am i a bad mother who does not love their child or am i just wanting to live my life as i am still young im 21 and have not been out to a club in over 2 years. whats wrong with me???
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