Please help me, My parents are breaking up.?

Question

My parents are breaking up and im a 15 year old boy. I am feeling really sad and i feel like i need to talk to somebody but i dont know who...

Answer 1

talk to the person u can trust and if you cant find anyone then find a way to take out ur feelings like play a sport and do something constructive. talk to your parents and if they really care about you then they will listen. email me if you still need to talk and ill replay.and oh good luck and don't do anything to try to hurt ur self and u definitely are not the curse of their breaking up. they just can not stand each other. :)

Answer 2

Well, I understand how you feel because I am also a product of a broken family.  You can talk to them and if they tells you relationship can't work out, you have to accept and respect their decision.  I know there are some things you will not understand in the meantime because you are very young.  There will be a time that you will grow up and be matured enough that you will understand why parents breaking up.  And I experienced that.  I still respected them although they have their own life now and I could see them both happy and peaceful in way of living.  Remember not all children comes from a broken family is quite different in attitudes or personality or not disciplined at all. .  I don't believe on that.  It's in the person and it's in your mind and heart. You have to be prepare but prepare your heart to be more strong and must have faith that if this happen this is in a way for both of them to remain respectfull with one another than  being together and not happy anymore. Like what I had experienced, when  my parents broke up I still make the most and best for my life to show people that my parents though broke up still I have a good life and well disciplined daughter.  You get what I mean?  Do the positive things move on positively not the vice versa of revenge that you will ruin your life or will hate them.  Have to show the wolrd that you will not be affected and it's not your fault nor their fault it's their destiny, their life or trial that have to be resolve. You can see people very succesful though product of a broken family. Why don't you be one of them a very succesful man in the future.  God bless!

Answer 3

My dad died like 2 months before i was born so i never knew him so be glad that you know both of your biological parents. But on the other side my mom got re-married when i was 7 and she is really happy now and he is great and everyone agrees.

EVERYONE FINDS THEIR TRUE LOVE BUT SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO GET MARRIED AND TEST THE WATERS BEFORE THEY CAN JUMP INTO THE DEEPEND.

Answer 4

My parents split up a while back, it's increasingly common in this day and age, and many of us can feel for ya. There's no getting around it, it's a difficult period for everyone. It's the end of the only way of life you've known for the first 15 years of your life. It's important to understand, though, that you can have a healthy and loving relationship with both parents, no matter the state of their relationship with one another. It's an adjustment, yes, but one that you are perfectly capable of making. The human capacity to recover from a blow like this is almost infinite. Good luck with everything, love; and God bless.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

act smart and tell both of them seperately about you fealings.

Answer 7

I was 11 when my parents split and I had to live with the parent I hate.  Unfortunately you will need to figure out who you feel comfortable with, and talk to them about this if you want to talk.  Someday you'll be an adult and you'll have your own life, don't let this get you down, some people just aren't meant to be together, it sucks, but its life.

Answer 8

((HUGS))  I'm so sorry.  Just know it's not your fault.

Do you have any close relatives?  Your grandparents?  Or a close adult you can talk to?  If you think you need help getting through it, ask your parents if you can go to therapy, you can talk out your feelings with a professional who can help you.  

Answer 9

Hi hon...

maybe it's best to talk with your parents about how you feel...  just let them know you're sad.. and that you love them... YOU need to be loved and reassured, too.

if your parents don't love each other anymore, realize they still love you!  and perhaps they will be happier, and even healthier if they are apart.  

i know things will work out for you.  and i'd also like to say that you might consider talking to an adult you know, trust and respect... sometimes we just need someone to listen.  many times, relatives or a friend's parent can be helpful... or even your school counselor.

i have posted a website below for teens dealing with their parents' divorce. hope it's helpful