Please help me, i dont know what to do. ?

Question

Okay, so my parents are real jerks

and when i say real jerks i dont mean they tell me to clean up my room or anything

but they are maybe insane? like seriously insane

so today i got back from a friends house and they started yelling and screaming at me for evey little thing i have EVER done wrong in my past, like forgetting to put my stuff away, or leaving my clothes on the floor. And then instead of being mature and talking about it, they left.

And they said we arent beinging our phones with us, dont call us, maybe we'll be back.

that sorta thing.

its not like this is the first time they ever acted liek this, but they acted like this all the time,

and when i was ten my dad tried to kill himself, and i had to call the police. And also my parents refuse to buy me stuff i actually need like contacts, school supplies, clothing, shoes, etc.

and my mom when i was little used to leave and not come back until midnight,

so is there anything i can do about this? any suggestions, please?

other stuff

my mom isnt an alcoholic,

but i think my dad is

and also i sleep in the baasement because my house only has three bedrooms and they want my older sisters to have their own rooms.

Answer 1

parents are just tired of kids sometimes they'll be back dont worry to much good luck

Answer 2

Hmmm...first question, how old are you?? If you're 18, get a job and move out IMMEDIATELY. If you're 15, start working and save up (REALLY save up). I'm 19 and I still live at home. But thankfully, during the school year, I live at the dorms. My parents have issues, and honestly, I think most parents have issues. The bad part about our caretakers having issues is they like to take it out on us. I was 4 when my dad tied my hands with my little sister's hands, grabbed a kitchen knife, and threatened to cut them off if we ever misbehaved. I was 4. What the h**l did I know?? My mom started telling me she wished she had aborted me when I was about 8. When I was around this age, my mom would run off and do whatever she was doing until the house quieted down. Then she'd come home. Same with my dad. They don't do drugs or drink (thankfully), but I hate it when they don't face up to the problem and they run away. I was a kid. I COULDN'T run away because I had 3 younger siblings to care for. I honestly don't know what to tell you except that you should leave when you can. My parents had issues and I turned out fine. In fact, I'm evening planning on med school someday. Don't worry. You'll be okay :)

Answer 3

ok when i was 13, i left home for good.  i went and moved in with the neighbor of a friend of mine, a 32 yr old man named beam.  beam got custody of me, and now we are still living together cuz hes my husband!

Answer 4

Look thats probably really tuff on u and i feel really bad. The only advice i can give is go to ur school guidence counseler or if u dont feel confortable doing that go to someone that u look up to like a relative or even a friends parents.

Answer 5

call the police and ask them to help because they do sound insane and your parents might get so insane they might consider killing you

Answer 6

obey your parents

Answer 7

you need to talk to a school couselor and call Children's services.  You might love your parents and are afraid to do this...but they are legally responsible for your health and medical needs.  

TALK to a teacher or a school counselor or a minister or doctor or someone who is liable by law to report abuse.

You should not be living this life.  You are a child and your childhood has been ripped from you and you  have to be the adult here.

You can do something....but talking to grandparents or aunts and uncles obviously don't do any good or something would have been done long ago.  So tell someone else. and keep talking until they listen.  

You can also tell the police.  Tell them you are always left alone and you are afraid they won't come back...they threaten this all the time.

Please take care of yourself.....and talk.  This might turn physical one day...and you need to protect yourself.

I worked with Juvenile court and we had a lot of children report their parents to get an investigation done so they could live a life without fear!  I did a lot of those investigations myself.

I am praying for you.

Answer 8

It sounds as if these guys are not your real parents you might want to do some research on that, and if so it is so sad that we do not have a choice to pick the parents that we want.  The best thing that I can tell you is to stay out of their way or either report  them to the authorities but I know you do not want to end up as a state case but just stay out of their way the best that you can and when they argue at you do not respond just ignore them and strive hard in your school work and get out of that house and go off to college and have a successful life do not let their actions diminish your future ahead you main goal is to focus on school and work your hardest get a scholarship and get out of that house.  

Answer 9

Tell your school's counsler.

Answer 10

if you're close to your older sisters try to get them to  help you out.

you should talk to your school counselor, and maybe if you can, stay at a relatives house.

i hope that you'll be okay. good luck!

Answer 11

i don't think there is anything u can do...there not going to change..i would find someone else to live with, other family members

Answer 12

yeh girl ur stuck in a krazy ordeal. my mother used to suffer bi-polar and my dad used to do smack. i went thru just about the same thing as u, but they ended up recovering.

how old are u now? the older u get the more drama they'll give u. dey do that to me too lol. i dont say anythin though. let dem b-i-t-ch all they want. forget it. theres no changein them.

just show dem that u still love dem, no matter what. without dem u wouldnt be here..theyre hopeless though.  

Answer 13

Please go and speak with your school counselor and tell him or her this. He or She will direct you in the right place. This does NOT sound normal at all. Please talk to someone at your school and they will help you handle this and keep it private. If your school does not have a Guidance counselor to talk to, then ask your favorite teacher to speak with you in private. I promise they will help you.

If you feel strange about talking to your school counselor, then please type this page out and just hand it to them to read.

Answer 14

Talk to your school councelor about this.

Answer 15

I feel the pain you have, I grew up with both being alkees.You just have to hang in there. walk lightly, and ask yourself,Who am I and What can I do. and answer it, We all can make improvements, but you are a Teen ager and all you have are improvements from here on out, every week you will change more and more, and you will continue to define to yourself who you are and you will find different ways to express yourself, just as you are doing now.You cannot make anybody do anything, you can only deal with what they through at you, and OH Boy can parents sling some c**p, but they still love you and maybe forgot how to show you, so ask them to show you how does a young person show love to their parents and how are you suposed to see the love parents show you. you are not born with instruction, so tell them, I had a hard time knowing that a girl was flirting with me, I didn't know how to flirt so I didn't reconize flirting. yea I got laugh at. but keep asking the thing adults are suposed to know and teach you, It will take time.

Answer 16

i'm really sorry, dear :( if you ever wanna talk, email me: [e-mail]

Answer 17

well, talk to your sisters and see what they think and if they agree with you then you should go to the police, because this is a type of child abuse. they are doing "child neglect" which means that they are neglecting you.  which means that they arent giving you your basic needs, if you need to call child abuse.. or CPS (Child protective services)

the police and CPS can think of what should be done...