Please help me, my son is smoking i need help?

Question

Help, recently my son and his friends have been into smoking cigars. I was young once and i enjoyed cigars, it was just a phase with me. I don't indulge anymore but I feel like it would be wrong for me to tell my son not to smoke them.

Heres the thing though, they smoke these things EVERY NIGHT! For hours on end, im afraid my son is going to get lung cancer. I feel bad because when i listen out my window I hear all them having fun and laughing a lot but i think its time for this to stop. Another thing i find strange is i find a lot of the tobacco from the inside of the cigar on my lawn and in the garbage. I dont get how they are smoking them with out the tobacco.....

Answer 1

Sorry to have to tell you this, but the reason you're finding all that tobacco is that they aren't smoking cigars, they're smoking blunts -- hollowed-out cigars that have had the tobacco replaced with marijuana.

Answer 2

Honestly think about it, why would he take the tobacco out unless he was putting something else in it. Sound's like he's making blunts.

Yeah a lot of people try drugs at that age, but if you don't mind me reminding you, YOUR HIS FATHER!

If you had any brains at all you would talk to him.

Answer 3

haha, you're the same guy thats been making love to pop bottles..

Answer 4

i can tell you how to break him from smoking, then it,s up to you if you want to. take 1 of the cigars and put a horse hair in between it and when he lights up, it will make him sick as a dog. it wont kill him, but he will think he,s going to die.

Answer 5

ok i am 15 and my friends and i did the same 3 years ago(everyday....)!!

i don't think he will get lung cancer!! all my family smokes!!

and none had lung cancer, well my gradma died at age 70 from lung cancer... but the point i if they are taking the tobacco out of the cigar... it wouldnt be so harmful!!

i suggest you keep an eye on him!!

my mom cought me and she talked to me!! it was pretty convincing!! so i stopped!!

talk to him before it's too late!! and remember... your tone should be low and clear!!

good luck...

Answer 6

well obiously they take out the tabacco and put w*e*e*d inside but if he is under 18 then step up and tell him not to but optherwise you cant say anyting if its weed no matter his age you can tell him not too but if his 18 then he can smoke tabacco.

Answer 7

He's smoking blunts not cigars. They gut the cigar of tobacco and replace it with pot. Thats where all the laughing comes from.

Answer 8

If you are finding the tabacco on the floor it means they are ripping them open and rolling "blunts" your son is smoking weed

Answer 9

Its true that tobacco is highly addicting but you cant just hold your son down and force him to stop smoking. You can try by showing him the pamphlets and all that but you might never fully get him to stop. Most smokers just do it to look cool and then cant stop because they get addicted. As long as he's still not mature enough to realize that smoking has potential risks to your life and almost no real pleasure, theres nothing to be done. Sorry bro.

Answer 10

Is he underage?  If not, there's nothing you can do.  It's not illegal and he certainly won't listen when you tell him it's bad for him.

Answer 11

Joe ..would you rather have youre son dead or be a hypocrite im sorry im not trying to be harsh but this is very important ..You need to put a stop to this right now ..If it were my son i would tell him to stop and say this is you're first and final warning if i catch you doing it again i am going to whip you with a belt .. And i would whip him ..better that he have a sore butt than lying in the ground ......

Answer 12

It would help if you tell us his age?

but if he's around

18 or so he can do whatever he wants.

Just tell him how you feel

about him smoking and that your worried.

Answer 13

You need to stop this now!

Them taking the tobacco out of the cigars means they are replacing it with W.E.E.D.

W.E.E.D IS A VERY HARM FULL DRUG STOP THIS NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!!!!

Answer 14

Oh God, hes probably hollowing out the cigars to make blunts (replacing the tobacco with marijuana), you should tell him to stop, its your job as a parent to take care of him and you should'nt let him smoke.

Answer 15

well then maybe you should step up as a parent and tell him its wrong and take the cigars away from him...

Answer 16

sit down and talk to him privately

i should understand

unless its the ones with flavors on them

no onne can resist those O_o

JK