Please help me, what do I do?

Question

I've got a best friend who ALL the guys that I know really like. no exceptions. She amkes me feel ugly, like a shadow, worthless, I just get really bad self confidence from it. Even the guy I was dating liked her while we were dating, then broke up with me and still likes her. Like I get so sad sometimes I really need to do something about this. And fast.

Answer 1

That's hard.  I was jealous of my best friend in high school because she had this perfect model body and guys drooled over her.  She was jealous of me because I was athletic and smart.  It's so funny when I think back on it now.  In the long run -- what you think about yourself will have a tremendous impact on your future.  If you think less of yourself then your actions will follow your beliefs.  Eventually your life will suck so get out of that negative thinking now!

Rather than focusing on what qualities your best friend has, write down a list of your good qualities.  Do something every day that makes you feel beautiful and smart.  You may never have what she has but that doesn't mean you can't have a passionate, fulfilling and happy life.  You've got to make the best of what you have and you'll never get there if you're constantly comparing yourself to others.

Answer 2

Be confident and make yourself believe you're confident. Make everyone else believe you're confident. Guys love a chick with confidence. The reason is because they want to know what you are so confident about. It makes them curious. It also adds a little mystery to yourself. Also don't allow yourself to become the stereotype "that girl that hangs around with that hot chick". Put it to test one day and just pretend that you are the most beautiful girl in the room. Go up and talk to everyone and just act normal, no one deserves special treatment. Go talk to all the guys you wouldn't normally talk to. Be yourself and act like you couldn't have a care in the world. If other girls get jealous of you, and guys notice you, it's working. This will also separate your identity from your friends. People will take notice of you. Also don't be surprised if your friend gets a little jealous when you do this. She just might.  

Answer 3

well i would forget about it. personally i dont like to date girls that are perfect. it looks like the stepped out of a factory and were made. it sounds like she is like that. some guys like that idk why. just move on and you will find someone.

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Answer 4

omggg. I'm so sorry you have to go through that! I went through that last year.. darn dramaa.blah.. BUT !! Theres a but!!  don't let it get you down. :D Everyones made in a different way, and im sure you are beautiful the way you are!! If guys just like her for her looks, then they arent right!  Its whats on the inside that counts, rightt?? :) You should talk to your best friend, I'm sure she'd understand. Talk to your school counselor, parent, other friend, someone who you can TRUST. [: The time will come when the guy right for you is there, who loves you for ur looks and personality! Remember God made you special and loves you very much!! Hope this helps! Good luckk! Love,

Sarah

Answer 5

that's because your friend has confidence on her self and you don't, and who knows maybe your friend is sleeping with them and you don't know that happened to me sad but true  

Answer 6

put makeup on cute clothes and tell your friend how you feel. Get to know other guys and make sure your frined doesnt know them. Good luck! Please answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 7

If she is really your BEST friend then you should have no problem telling her how you feel. If she IS your best friend she'll understand and HELP you.

Answer 8

Sweetie don't ever feel as though you are second to the best. You two are best friends for different reasons and believe me it has nothing to do with your looks. If your ex broke up with you for her, that just means he wasn't worth it to begin with it.Instead of being sad and feeling so insecure about yourself, find what makes you happy. Like doing your hair different,trying a different style and always have a smile on your face. As you grow up you will realize that looks have absolutely nothing to do with TRUE friendships and relationships. It all comes from within. Good luck to you and keep your head up high : ).