Please help me I am tired of this happening to me?

Question

If you spouse change the pass code to the call notes without telling you and you say something about it and she gives you the new pass code is she hiding something. If you spouse says they want to work on the marriage but then when you say something they start crying does that means that they are doing something that they are suppose to be doing. How can you get them to open their eyes to see that they have a special person in front of them that don't want to lose them but if they keep acting the way they do it will happen? If I wanted to do something but my body is not allowing me to do that is it because I am love with my wife?

Answer 1

What is a pass code and what is a call note?

Answer 2

If I knew what the h**l you were babbling about I might be able to offer a little advice, but I'm lost. Why don't you think it over and re-post?

Answer 3

You lost me and I don't understand.  What does your body tell you to do?  Yes she could be hiding something, and maybe she feels you are hiding something.  I think you both need to sit down and have a long talk, whether she cries or not, about everything happening.  

Answer 4

what the????

Answer 5

You need to communicate with your wife. Sounds like neither of you are good at talking to each other.  

Answer 6

how about you ask a clear and understandable question so we can offer some good advice.  

Answer 7

Maybe you need to learn how to communicate??

Answer 8

=^.^=You two need counseling. If your spouse does "the crying" all the time, it's her defense to avoid any conversation with you and wants herself to be the only one who should be heard.

In a marriage, relationships works both ways. You can't get somebody to open up their eyes, just by yourself, if she is not willing to. If this has become a habit or a routine to her, "crying all the time", you definitely need a professional help (or a priest - they sometimes do marriage counseling). Counseling can help the two of you to open up with each other and make her understand that she should listen first to what you have to say before she starts to cry.

Showing your love for your wife doesn't mean that only you have to do/obey to all the things that she wants.

Love is give and take and most of all respect with each other.

Answer 9

You cannot make someone love you, no matter how much you love them.  Your wife may have changed the way she feels.  Mabey you should go to marriage counceling.  As far as your body you may be unable to perform due to stress.  Take some time to cool of.  Give her time as well.  Dont push things.  Good luck.

Answer 10

If she is being secretive, I think you need to address this (with metal armor on) and don't back down.

There is no room for secrecy in a marriage.

TO be honest - I am a bit confused about your queston so - I am just shooting at the stars with MY answer!