Please help me I can't stop crying!?!?

Question

Ok I was watching the notebook and when she got that disease where you can remember anyone for a while I was thinking of my mom when that happened. What can I do to make sure she does not get that because she adopted me and these lot of years been wonderful. She adopted me when I was a baby and every day we always get closer and have good times and I don't want her to forget me! Its hard for me to write this because crying I no should suck it up but I cant I love her so much and she is the most important thing that ever happened to me in life and shes all I have but I just love her and I don't want her to forget me. What can I do to stop it?

What age does it start?

What can i do to stop it?

Please help and no rude comments I love her so much I been earning a lot of money each christmas and her birthday to give her a lot of gifts, please I love her and don't want her to forget me. This took me 40 minutes to write because I cant stop crying

You cant blame me I love her so much and I'm in my teens.

Answer 1

Do you mean she has a chance of getting alzheimers or dementia?

I know exactly what you are going through.

My nan HAS dementia.

She is now in a state where she cant talk or walk let alone remember me.

Yeah its realy realy hard, but you just have to make the time you have with them count.

Even though they may not remember, it eases the pain to put a smile on their face.

Also try and think about times that you realy enjoyed with her.

Im also in my teens and was about 14 when this first happened to my nan.

It doesnt happen to every one so you may have nothing to worry about.

But i understand where you are coming from because it is a scary and upsetting thought.

The best advice i can give is to try and enjoy your time with her and not worry about this happening.

x

Answer 2

Some people never do get Alzheimer's disease. Don't worry about it right now. enjoy the time you do have with her. Or have her keep a picture journal. :D that way she would never forget.

but i would say...just don't worry about it mostly.  

Answer 3

She will not forget you trust me and don't let anyone tell you to suck it up there's nothing wrong with crying it cleanses the soul  

Answer 4

Aww. That is sweet that you care about her so much. And don't worry so much that she will get this diease. She may not.  

Answer 5

I was always told to cry is the bests medicine and tension reliever there is.So don't feel bad about crying it's a normal thing to do. What some of the things some of the others have answered so far is very good advice. Don't look down the road with something like this live for today and enjoy each others company and love. For a teen you are showing a lot of courage to reach out and as complete strangers for help and  that is good. To make her feel good just be who you are and keep showing all that love you have shown to  us.

Take Care everything will work out fine.

Answer 6

First of all if you feel like you have to cry then cry Alzhimers disease is somthing that usually happens in the very late years and just because your old doesn't mean you will get it.  You never know.  Hey enjoy these times in your life you have now with her.  Its great that you care so much as a teen.  

Answer 7

well my grandmother has it .  I forget what age it started. you cant stop it. sry.  just lots of different drugs. sry for you. =''[