Please help me!! I don't know what to do????!!!!?

Question

Ok, well, the day before yesterday my mom and I were making blueberry muffins and she yelled at me and said that I put too much flour in it, she then proceeded to stomp on m foot. Then with all of my might stoped on her foot. She immediatley screamed out in pain and it started to PUFF UP HUGE!!!!!! There is a humungus bruise on it and she started bawling. I appologized immediatley and I felt terrible about what did . Then I started to cry too. Now today she won't talk to me and it it still puffed up. We can't afford to go to the hospital and she limps. WHAT DO I DO NOW??????????

By the way I am 5'3 and 145 lbs if that makes a difference

Answer 1

Err...

First..

WHY? WHY DID YOU DO THAT?!

Also, I think you should help her put ice on it and taking her around wherever she needs to go. Keep apologizing but not in the annoying way.

I hope she gets better!

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Answer 2

Just leave her alone, she obviously did not like you giving her back a taste of her own medicine. As your Mother, she needs to talk to you like a rational adult, and it was ridiculous that she even thought of causing you physical harm over something as mundane as too much flour-or anything else for that matter. She could have hurt you just as bad as you hurt her. I have never heard of too many places without low income hospitals, so I would bet yours has one too. Both of you were wrong, but it should have never even happened to begin with. Don't feel guilty, I know it is easy to let yourself, but she really needs to think about what she did wrong to begin with and why it caused the reaction in you it did.  

Answer 3

I way more than that. tell her your sorry and make somthing thats not muffins. she should put some ice on  her foot. i dont think she should of stomped on your foot. i hope im not around her when i get too much flower.

Answer 4

I don't that that what you did was the solution, but I KNOW that what she did was definitely NOT the right thing to do either.  Just go out of your way to help her out more and use ice to get the swelling down.  Twenty minutes on, twenty minutes off, etc. should work.

Answer 5

well she steped on your foot what mom steps on your foot for putting to much flour in muffins its so friggen mean she deserved it but.....just appologise from the bottom of your heart because id feel bad to maby she'll talk to you

Answer 6

wow sorry. um, say your sorry. Put some ice on her foot to dull down the swelling. offer to get her things like sodas and lunch and stuff so she doesent have to get off her foot as much. Your mom will always love you, so she will forgive you.  

Answer 7

Ice.

Answer 8

you already asked this question so look at what i said on the other 1 !!!

Answer 9

i would put ice on it and tell her you are really sorry and try to talk it out with her

Answer 10

teaches her a lesson

Answer 11

talk to your mom and if she wont listen write her a note. Make sure she puts plenty of ice on her foot

Answer 12

WELL first I'd say ow and why would she stomp on you foot if you put in to much flour

Answer 13

i am sorry but your mom is mean! just for flour! well put ice on her foot... and i would have done the same thing!

Answer 14

1st sound that she can't handle her temper.  You just reacted in shock.  Just put ice on it.  She will be fine

She needs to understand that sometime when thrwoing a fit it going to come right back at her.

Sorry she did that to you.  

Answer 15

Awwwww poor mommy.

You should leave it for one more day and if it gets worse go to the doctor but I don't think you need to.

ICE!

MASSAGE!

Have them pamper her.

See if it helps.

Clean the house, whatever makes her happy.

Answer 16

You said your sorry. So its about all you can do, maybe helpful and keep trying.    And ask her to soak it  and try to stay off it the then it should go down>

Answer 17

Tell her you are sorry. Make her sit on the couch and relax.  Have her put some ice on it and elevate it for a while. Make her some tea or coffee and some dinner.

Mom's are people too, and they get hurt and need to be taken care of just as often as kids do.

Answer 18

Make her trsut you again and try to take care of her, like bring her food, and try to make peace with her.  

Answer 19

wow next time measure the flour!!!!!!!!!

I would tell her sorry alot. sry i dont relly know what to do.  is ur dad around? maybe tell him or a friend.

Answer 20

I have a solution for you.  But first let me tell you, both of you were wrong.  I always say," It's better to have some one askng for forgiveness than to be the one who has to ask for it."

Without having to go to the hospital:  Get your mom to elevate her foot above heart level while she lies down.  Pack it with ice.  When it starts to get uncomfortable for her, remove the ice for a while.  Keep repeating this process.  For the pain, give her a combination of Tylenol and Motrin.  Not anacin, or excedrin, or any other.  The hospitals also use the Tylenol-Motrin combination to reduce fevers.  ( Just something good to know.)

Aside from appologizing, maybe you can do some of the things she would normally have to do so that she has the time to lie down.  That would show you're really sorry.

  If the swelling doesn't go down or it gets worse, take her to a doctor.  Don't mess around with something like this.  Good luck.

Answer 21

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Answer 22

Get a new mom with a harder foot.