Please help me.I need as many answers as i can get. Friend problems?

Question

I moved after 6th grade and am now going to 9th grade. I kinda had a hard time making new friends,but last year i was in a group with three people,and i thought we were pretty good friends,and they were the kind of friends i wanted. But now, i see that we're really different and they're not really my type of friends. Theyre really obnoxious and disrespectful. Like yesterday me and two of them went to the mall,and one girl was having an attitude the whole time,and was like "OMG you'd wear that?' She was moody and annoying the whole time. Like rolling her eyes. My other friend was just being ridiculous and crazy the whole time. Like when she couldnt find me,she'd scream my name around the whole store,"Jessicaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!" im half asian, and my Dad's full,so when she comes over,she'll go up to my Dad and imitate his accent. She'll yell,"OOOOAAAOO" And try to sound Chinese. It really bothers me. And i tell her to stop but she doesn't. She's really rude, and she'll call lots of people nerds when she doesn't realize how she acts. And everyone would stare at her. She was just completely obnoxious the whole time. And really embarrassing. In the car, she was acting really stupid.Shed be like "Hi Jessica,how are you today?"And make beaver faces,and randomnly yell in the car. Her Dad would tell her to be quiet but she wouldn't listen. Theres alot more. Im crazy and loud,but not retarded or stupid crazy like she is. So theyre the only people along with one other person that i hang out with at lunch,and i really dont wanna hang out with them anymore,but i dont have anyone else.

I want to know how to make new friends.Like everyone has there friends already,so its hard to just join a group. I cant walk up to someone and say,"Hey,can i hang out with you guys?" Please help me. Thats what im dreading the most,because EVERY lunch they embarrass me somehow. I hate school because of this. Not worried about my grades.

Any advice?

Best advice= Best answer.

Thank you.

Answer 1

Sounds like maybe your maturity level has surpassed that of your friends'.  When I was in school, I was soooo shy!  Other people terrified me.  I have no idea why I was like that, but it sure made making new friends very difficult.  My aunt talked to me about it one day and told me that she had been the exact same way.  She said that she really wanted to make new friends, but didn't know how because she was so shy and wouldn't talk to anybody first.  So what she did was, basically, started smiling at people, whether she knew who they were or not.  If she passed someone in the hall, as she was passing by, she would smile at them.  Kind of saying "Hello" without actually saying "Hello".  At first I thought she was crazy because I thought for sure that everyone would think I was crazy if I walked around the school smiling all the time at everybody.  But then I figured I'd try it because, um, I really didn't have anything else.  So I started smiling, and to my complete surprise, amazement and awe, by the end of the school year, I had more friends than I'd ever had, all of whom spoke to me first.  Who knew?  Best of luck.

Answer 2

Just go up to someone who's not in a group and say hi. I mean after a while it gets easier. Maybe you should just tell your friends "You guys I really HATE it when you do that stop it please it is so annoying.'" If they don't listen tell them you won't be there friend anymore. MAybe they'll stop but if they don't just say hi.Se what she likes and dislikes.