Please help me..WHY AM I SO INSECURE AND CONSTANTLY WORRIED THAT HE'S CHEATING?? :'(?

Question

I broke up with my bf once because I thought he was cheating, I'm not entirely sure that I'm convinced that he wasn't. I'm so insecure that its ridiculous & I just want to trust him because I love him, but I can't seem to, things keep freaking me out!!

like phonecalls from girls...he looks supernervous & hurries up & says I can't talk right now

& comments on myspace that say "only my man gets to see pictures like that"

<<<<WTH!! was he asking for them??

someone help me

my insecurity is getting out of control and I've NEVER been that way in any other relationship!!

Answer 1

Once a cheater always a cheater.  The best predictor of the future is the past.  Block his number etc. and stop beating yourself up over someone who is not worth it at all. Why do u want a relationship with someone you don&#039;t trust

Answer 2

  ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT!!!!! a girls gut tells the truth... i know this because i just recently had to trust mine.. my stomach was hurting and  i kept getting paranoid that my boyfriend was hiding something from me... well the other day he txt me adn tokd me that he was hiding something from me...he started smoking. So i was right.  I would be pissed if i was in your situation. There is no reason why he should be talking to girls and saying he has to call them back because you are there. thats BULL S***!!! so you need to confront him and don&#039;t put your guard down! terll him not to lie to you it would only make things worse!!!!  there are plenty of men out there that would gladly be there for you.