Please help me fix my lame boyfriend!!!!?

Question

My boyfriend is the most immature guy in the world. He is 23 still lives at home (he is not in school so he should be on his own) he just got his licsins and he drinks A LOT. He refuses to grow up!!!!! How can I make him see that he is not peter pan and that he needs to grow up! I tried to get him intrsted in the military because they make you grow up but o course he is to scared to enlist. He cant even ind a job because he loves working with his druk dad to much! I eed help and fast!!

Answer 1

you can't change someone. he has to change himself

Answer 2

Move away and find someone else.

There is no other way, he needs to see the damage he is doing to himself. You cannot change him, he needs to do that himself.

Answer 3

He is to immature for you.  You need to find a man who will respect you and want to do things with you.  Be a friend and partner.  Let the boy stay home and play.  You step out with the grown ups and have a great life.

Answer 4

listen, people grow up slowly. most of my uncles [30's] think they are 17 lol,,guys will always be immature and some girls too. if hes not right for you, you leave,,let him grow up in his own time.

Answer 5

Yeah, you know, you don't have to put up with that.  I say dump his ***, why would you want to be around/with someone like that.  He doesn't seem like he's gonna change anytime soon.  Plus, he has to make that decision on his own, you can't change him, he has to be willing too.