Please help me get my bestfriend back =( I tried everything...

Question

I can't stop crying right now. I was friends with him all my life and now he is saying he wants to go our seperate ways b.c I made that fake s/n last night talked to him on it b.c I was scared him & I were losing touch and I just wanted to gain it back and now he said he thought about it, made his decision, and now he said we need to go our seperate ways...he said it was nice knowing you, i'll never forget you thanks for the memories this is goodbye...and it's killing me so much =( idk what to do...I just hate this so much..I would give everything and anything to be his friend again...he means the world to me..not only my best friend but i'm also in love with him...and then after he said goodbye to me on his myspace it said " I just lost everything, my world" does that mean he loved me too and just never told me? or that hes just hurt that we have to go our seperate ways? I'm so confused please help me =(...

Answer 1

I dont think that is a good idea to get him back. He's alrady made his decision and he has his reasons.

Answer 2

i'd try to talk to him and come clean on everything

but be carefull i am reading drama symptomes here, and figuring your teens...well they have a tendancy to get dramatic instead of being mature, i burned myself on that once to the degree i was so mad afterwards of the childish acts that i choose to cut contact

i know several teens through a hobby community so have friends as such, in the way you can be friends across such ages...but some of them you learn are major drama, this was early on in my membership there (and was just turned out of my own teens) and i hadnt learned to watch for this because i never had to deal much with such in real life...so yeah i fell for it before learning my lesson of just how S***y teen drama can be

(when i was a teen i wasnt part of the main streem stuff so didnt really get into any of that type of thing in my youth, i was more the quiet type keeping to myself with just a couple friends doing the same with other hobbies then the rest, so i guess i escaped a lot of the drama ongoings)