Please help me i need answer?

Question

right i dont no where to start i had a baby 6 months ago and he was such a hand full when he was born he cried morning noon and night and then i suffered depression, my mam has a full time job and had breast cancer and two more operation last year but is great now, she started taking my child two nights a week to give me a break and yes i no im very lucky. my boyfriends mother doesnt work and does nothing every day but yet find it hard to help, we were living in my boyfriends town but then moved back to mine and we are here 3 months and his mother hasnt called in once she hasnt took the child in two weeks and rings me yesterday goin mad saying she hasnt seen the child i went mad sayin you no where i live... im just so pi** off that she doesn work and she leaves everyhing to my mam like my boyfriend and me are v ery close to been finished im so annoyed and have been the past couple if days do you think im in the wrong what should i do? more to story bu dont wanna go on and on..

Answer 1

Funny, I feel like I already answered this today.

Answer 2

Not really- no you aren't in the wrong. You are not keeping your child from the other grandmother, she is choosing not to be involved unless it's convenient for her.  Keep your stance that you are open to her visits or even bring the child over, whether or not you and your bf stay together, but don't push it. Do your best to maintain a good relationship with the other grandmother.  You have a child now and it's her flesh and blood too.  You brought two families together now by having a child.

Answer 3

There is two sides to every story.  Did you or your boyfriend bother calling his mom to see if you would like to see the baby? Or did you just assume that because you moved she wouldn't want him / her? You also need to understand that this isn't either grandparents child and they don't have to help you.

Are you working? Put the baby in daycare. I'd do it even if I wasn't working, just to have time for myself. Are you on medication for the depression? Have you taken the baby to the doctor to see if he is collicky? Have you joined a mothers group? They help and provide mentors that you can talk to.