Please help me....i need some feedback from anyone who is willing to give it to me...?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been having unprotected s*x for around 2 months now. the other day we were in the pool and it was the first time he didnt "pull out"......that was 4 days ago, and this afternoon i was having signs of my monthly visitor....but it has been very light spotting and ive been taking midol allll day, and the cramps still wont go away. i took a pregnancy test a week ago and it came back negative....im just curious if anyone has any idea what is going on....should i take another test and see if maybe i got a false negative?? signs of pregnancy dont show up this quick....right??? please help....

Answer 1

yh it dont show up bloody too soon it takes almost 2 to 3 weeks u jus wait for 2 more weeks than take a test again u,ll findout seems to me u r pregnant cz if u not having periods jus spoting that means this is a implantation bleeding dont take any medicine other than tylenol cz its safe in pregnancy other medicine can caused miscarriage...

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

First of all you should be on some kind of birth control. You also might be having some hormonal changes. It sounds as if you are concerned and stressing about this not to sound like a old hen but if you don't want to get pregnant ( or  HIV, STD's) use a condom. That pull out **** is for the birds:p

Answer 3

Well, no.. pregnancy symptoms would not show up in 4 days since it actually takes 2 weeks for a fertilized egg to implant. But, it could be that you have already been pregnant since you said you've been having s*x for 2 months unprotected.  Was your last period normal and on time?  Having s*x in a pool is really not good for you. It seems fun, but its not very sanitary. The cramping could actually be a result from a bladder infection or UTI. If you don't get your period when you should, I would check with a doctor to see if it is one of the two.  

Answer 4

You should probably wait a little while and then take another test. Another thing, if you are that freaked out about being pregnant. USE PROTECTION. Babies are not something that can just be undone.  

Answer 5

First of all, pulling out never prevents pregnancy. At any point in the last 2 months of unprotected s*x you could have become pregnant. You most likely wouldn't have signs of pregnancy just 4 days after intercourse. Spotting and cramps aren't necessarily signs of pregnancy. Some women spot, some woman don't. Some signs of pregnancy can be fatigue, sore b*****s, frequent urination and nausea. If you haven't gotten your period in the next week, take another test. I took one a week after I got pregnant and it was negative. I took another one a week later and it was positive. You could be getting ready to have a really sh*tty period. If you never get the full shebang or the cramps get worse, go to the doc. There's all kinds of lovely female problems that could be going on! Good luck!

Answer 6

are you looking to have a child?  unprotected s*x=your innocent child who didnt choose to be born.  We dont get to choose our parents, are you ready to take on the role?  Lets get real here.  Are you ready? are you seriously ready to be a mom?  playing with fire.  whatever you do, please, do not murder an innocent child for your carelessness. over a half of million babies were killed by abortions in the past five years compared to the 4000 or so in our own military.. i hope you take me seriously.

Is HE ready to be a parent?  Could you trust him to stick by your side through the uglies and be a father to your child?  sometimes men change their attitude when it sinks in.  Are you prepared if he leaves?  Obviously you havent committed to marriage yet, and do you have a guarantee that he will stay?  How does he feel about children?  What is his goals in the next few years?  Is he prepared to pay for a child?  What if he leaves? will he financially support you and your baby?  Will he resent you and your baby when forced to pay child compensation payments?   Do you really think he will be there?  Does he want to marry you?  Or does he have other interests on the side?  Are you aware of the costs of daycare?  Last time I checked in my area...$125-$150 a week  Thats almost $600 a month.  And diapers..$10-$15 a week...wipes$4.50 a week.  I nursed, im not sure how much formula costs..  I just paid a fortune in school supplies and clothes a few weeks ago.   For they are ever growing weeds from the day they are born...:)  Are you financially prepared to take on these costs. They will want toys and want sugary food.. How will you handle work leave.  How will you financially get by when you are on down time for weeks. Do you have sick leave incase your children are sick.  When my children get sick, it tends to go around the home for over a week or two.. its a huge pay loss because i dont have benefits.   These are the true questions you need to be asking.  Are you prepared to raise up a child to be interdependent in this society to become a productive adult in the community?  Are you prepared to be single if he decides he doesnt actually want to be a parent?  Are you ready to face your parents and his?    sorry.  its a big undertaking to be a parent.  i hope you are taking this seriously and that you dont try to give up what you started.

I had several false negatives to the point that it was completely unreliable.  I was forced to take a blood test whenever i needed to find out.  The first time, I was sure i had cancer or something because i had ruled out pregnancy in my mind with three false urine tests.  i was shocked to find i was pregnant.  my life changed that day. forever. Im blessed.

I have four and i hope that if you are, you make good choices.  whatever the outcome.  Life is precious.  What do you want your grandchildren to remember you by?  This is an awesome undertaking and your actions will be imprinted in their minds.  My grandma was a mother of 8 children and my mother was pregnant with me in highschool.. the facts eventually come out.  I did the math when i was five.  How do you want YOUR baby to be set into the world?  Is this what you want for your future baby?

Please, if you are not... please.. be asking these questions and choose a mate for life. A life partner that is going to weather the storm with you... choose a concrete foundation for your house to set on.  A house divided by itself cannot stand.  God has a plan for you, sweetie.  Let him into your heart and see what He plans he has for you.  i will pray for you.

honestly, i dont want to see you and your baby get hurt. i love my baby.  He is precious.  He needs my attention and he could not raise himself.  I have to be a mom.  24/7  peace be with you.