Please help me interpret bad dream?

Question

I have been having dreams like this for a little while now. I don't really understand it. Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend and I went to look at a home to buy, but when we got there the house had an eerie feeling to it and had strange, narrow stairs to small upstairs rooms we did not like. The house had a haunted feel to it. Then we went outside, where we saw a beautiful beach. We tried to walk along the water, but soon the waves got too violently large and carried him away. When I found him again he was with another woman, and they were obviously attracted to each other. He ignored me as I tried to call his name, again and again. The next part I can remember was him meeting my friends from Dayton (I moved here 6 years ago, he has never met them) but hes wearing a silly clown costume and refuses to take it off. I get very frustrated and we get into a fight before he announces that he no longer loves me and has found someone else.

It doesn't make any sense because my boyfriend shows no signs of ever behaving this way. These dreams are very unsettling. Just last night he told me how much he loves me and that he sees himself spending the rest of his life with me. I actually think he might propose. Could that be why I'm having these dreams? Please tell me what you think it is. Thanks!

Answer 1

Your boyfriend's probable proposal is bringing up fears. This might be stemming from scars from past hurts. There's definitely a trust issue going on. Perhaps you are not quite ready to get married. Maybe its just cold feet. Hopefully, you can explore your feelings and figure out what this dream is trying to say to you. Good luck

Answer 2

dreams are dreams sometimes they have no meaning you may have just had something on your mind that night

but it may mean you have little trust in him

Answer 3

This dream could be about considering the future, yet feeling uncertain.

Just as marriage is a house where two people are living, so is the dream of buying a house. As you look at this 'dream house' you are evaluating if it is a place you'd like to live for the rest of your life. Similarly, as you are considering marriage you are wondering what it would be like to be married to him for the rest of your life.

The haunting and the fact that you don't like this house means that you have your concerns, but your concerns are from the past. And this makes me want to ask you if your parents had a divorce, or a troubled marriage because that could be the reason why you can't move into your new "house".

As you move on in your dream you are confronted with an uncontrollable natural force. Your man is swept from your arms by violent waves that neither he nor you have control over. Everyone knows that people CAN naturally fall out of love, it just happens sometimes. You are worried about this, but no one can predict it, and of course you feel insecure, because you know that. The result of him naturally drifting away is that he finds another life parter- that is scary because it means he is not coming back to you. He won't even acknowledge the pull you once had on him because he won't answer you when you call out for him. That is the scariest thing that can happen in a relationship the fear sounds like this, "what if I give everything to this person, but then they leave?".

In the last part of the dream he has come back to you, but he has changed his appearance, in this way you cannot be intimate with him you cannot touch the real him. It is another form of loss. Then comes the final good bye, "I no longer love you and I have found someone else." It is what you knew all along because you have lost him twice before.

So if you have no problems with intimacy in your relationship with him currently, then ask yourself where your two biggest losses in your life have been. From there you can work back to where your insecurity and fear come from. Your task is to tease apart what is haunting you from yesterday, and what is a likely fear for today.

If there are no intimacy problems whatsoever and your boyfriend is someone who is always open to letting you in, and never withholds part of his own inner truth from you, then don't worry about the violent waves because he will fight his way back to your arms. Design your own 'home' and move from the past and future into the present.

Answer 4

some part of you fears losing your husband to another woman. you fear that after he leaves you he'll forget you. you also fear that if you lose him you will look like a fool for falling for someone like him

i don't know i'm just guessing

Answer 5

Since you mentioned that you had been having these dreams, I think you need to pay attention to this dream. The dreams could be telling you the truth! Beware! Don't take the dream lightly. It could be a warning to you about what is going to happen in the future.

From my experiences, whenever I have dreams that have similar meanings, it means God is telling me that the dream would come true.

Take care!