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Please help me it is necessary please!!

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Again I am faced with a problem and I will be coming for advice!!!

Okay so basically here is the deal. My mom decided out of random that she was going to move out of my grams at pretty much any cost, but my grandparents need her because they are getting older and they are very sickly. One year-ago my mom said that she would stay there and take care of them, and know she can not handle being an adult and following the simple house rules so she is moving out. I told my mom that i will not go with her, i love her but unless she calls the cops and has them drag me to the new house I AM NOT GOING!! So i didn't i moved in with this lady(best friends mom). I was going to pay her 500 dollars a month to cover stuff (and i do not eat much). But after three days she was like i went threw my finances and i won't e able to afford it.First i was confused i eat almost nothing, and i take up no extra electricity i am where they are and dont ever turn on my light for more then 10 seconds to go up the stairs.Next I was hurt!! I was so pissed she is a 45 year old woman she should know how to do things before i got there. I came from Vermont to mass where she lives. SO i had to get out of the house. I came to my boyfriends house and they said i could stay until this Thursday. His sister and her friend did no dishes and got hair dye all over the tub so the dad is pissed. In being so he is kicking anyone who does not live their out, including me. I did my dishes and put away others, kept my room clean and kept to myself. So i did nothing wrong but yet i am being also kicked out!! So as of tonight i am hopeless! My dad will be coming on Wensday to come and talk to me about living with him and his fiance. I do not want to live with him because he abused me physically and mentally when i lived with him before, but i have no other choice. I will not go back to my moms because she abuses me mentally and we barely have food and we would have no new cloths so if they were holey and falling apart to bad.She will buy ciggs, soda, 100$ purses, and stuff for the dog until there i no money for us kids to have cloths or food. My poor sisters cant even get school supplies, or cloths.

I do not want to be homeless but i do not want to live with the nightmares of my past what do i do?? I am 17 until December 6 just to add that in!!

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  1. Hmmm... could you live with your grandparents? Help take care of them?  


  2. wow. it sounds like you have it hard. have you thought about moving in with your grandparents and getting a job?

    maybe another one of your friends will let you live with them for a while until you get things sorted out.

  3. Grandparents still sound like the best option, especially if they need someone around.  Your mum won't disown you.  She will be pissed at you, she won't talk to you for a while but she will get over it.  Threatening to disown you is just another form of emotional abuse and you are not going to give in to that.

    If the grandparents don't work out, couch surf about your friends and extended family until you can get a job and a room in a share house.  

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