I'm 14, a girl, I'm not sure whether I'm straight or not. I love g*y guys. I'd really like to meet some, but I think my age might be a problem. I'm not leagally allowed into g*y clubs, but I could always sneak out, but that could be a problem also as it's quite difficult. Also, I have this weird feeling as if I was actually meant to be a boy. I remember thinking sometimes when I was little that I was actually meant to be a boy; and I couldn't help dress like one either, we were poor so I had to wear my brothers' cast offs and I never really had Barbies or anything cos my mum didn't like them. I remember that the first time I wore a bra I actually felt physically sick and I didn't really want to wear it cos i thought it made me look like I had b***s and that it made me look like a woman. I mean I like make-up and stuff, I just think it'd be more interesting putting it on if I were a boy. I've always thought that it was boring being straight, and I'm really fed up of being supposedly straight. I've always thought that everyone was like me, they didn't like the gender they were given, like people with straight hair hate having straight hair and vice versa with curly hair. But obviously not :( What should I do?
a) Accept I'm a girl, this is just a phase, just move on and find something else to obsess about...
b) Find some g*y friends, and that's all they're gonnna be, friends (I don't want to "convert" g**s to straights, I think that's just messing about in other peoples' lives..
c) Have a s*x change op when I'm sixteen. I dunno though, cos it's drastic and what if it's just a phase??
d) Other.. Be creative, lol x
Sorry, I know it's a weird question, I'm really desperate and I think about it all the time, it's really got into my head.
Any answers at all, appreciated. I'd like lots of views on this, please :)
Thanks x*x
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