Please help me on this...?

Question

Hi,

Umm...So here's the thing. Before I say what this is about, I want you to know that I am not a bad person, but I admit I have many personality flaws that I am trying to correct. I know that talking behind people's backs is really a bad thing, and I am sure we've all done it...and I have too, but never to spread rumours or bring someone harm. Basically, sometimes I say something I am not supposed to with no intention of hurting the person it's about, and I forget that it might get me into trouble. One time I just slipped up on a very minor info about a friend, and I completely forgot I even said it, but she found out and she forgave me. I felt really bad and promised myself to watch what I say in the future. But I am just worried that I have said something else about the same friend way before the other incident I mentioned, and basically what I said involved both of us. And, the person I told to will not say anything because she doesn't care about it. But I feel horrible because I wouldn't want to lose a friend for gossiping even if it's harmless because I wouldn't want to lose her trust. I really care about my friend, and wouldn't try to hurt her, and I just wonder what to say if she ever finds out that I said something about her to the wrong person? Please, don't judge me, I feel really bad and I know not to make the same mistake in the future, but just give me some helpful advice if you can. Thank you.

Answer 1

If she does find out just tell her that you told that person a long time ago and that was way before you apologize the first time for being a blabber mouth.  Make this a lesson learn.  Try to keep secrets and personal information about your friends to yourself and not to every tom,d**k and harry. Be sure to apologize profusely if she does find out.

Answer 2

Well i'm glad you know what ur flaw is and that you are trying to correct it. I really respect that and i think you should come clean with ur friend. He/she deserves to know that u said something but u need 2 let them know that you told someone else before you decided to change.You should apologize and tell your friend that you really have changed.Dont be surprised if it takes your friend a while to trust u as much as he/she does right now but dont worry, with time, you can gain the trust back.I wish u all the luck!

Answer 3

FIRST SUCK SOME SKITTLEZ SECOND U SOUND A LOT LIKE AND X BEST FRIEND THAT WE DUMPED AS IT WERE. SHE SPREAD RUMORS AND LIED JUST FOR ATTENTION. THAT IS A BITCHY THING TO DO. IF U CANT KEEPYOUR MOUTH SHUT ABOUT THINGS YOU SHOULD KEEPO YOUR MOUTH SHUT ABOUT, YOU DONT DESERVE FRIENDS

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