Please help me out here. its relationship questions, i know wrong category, but im getting like no answers?

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some of them are long, but please help he out. heres the links to them

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiLCpR9NoTGtriRJCPaTow3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080825193313AAypqDx

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As9tu1GJjCc9CUlD58Qvomzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080825192625AAvZ3xQ

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApMwp1BmNuFpISptU3nEJ0vsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080825183836AA4unUg

Answer 1

wow.

you made a HUGE mistake.

i know that there's more to the story that i don't know, but i think you should just give it a while, and let him chill out. then call him and insist that you should pay for the damage. if he refuses, don't argue.  go and pay for it anyway, without him knowing (if thats possible). he'll get a great surprise and realize that you are sorry about doing what you did.  Then write to him, and rebuild your relationship. if he doesn't care about you anymore, its his loss, not yours.  about coping with him being gone.. you should cry it out, hand out with your friends and just talk to them, start exercising (i did and it helped me sooo much!), and just forget about it, start hanging out at places where you can meet more guys that are probably more forgiving than your ex. if he forgives you and you get back together, YAY!  i hope everything works out for you guys, good luck!