Please help me out like asap

Question

I have known the boy next door for eight years now and he cones to our parties and stuff. my cousin and I are pretty sure he likes me but he is very shy so he is obviously not going to tell me. he is so shy even when he is going to talk to me one of his really good friends he approaches me shyly..... i want to talk to him more often because on average we talk 3 times in 4 months.( we are both busy and he doesnt go to the same high school at this time) my cousin and i were able to get his fone # w/o him knowing(story on that below) so I don't want to text him because he is gonna be like where'd you get my number from and it would be awkward explaining... I still want to figure out a way to talk more can anybody please help

P.S. if you can figure out a way I can send him a text w/o it being awkward I'm sure I could do that too.... here is the story of how I got his cell #....... my lil bro had his 5th b-day party march 15, 2008 and we were talking Then my cousin pretended that her fone was being weird and asked if she could borrow his for a second. he is REALLY nice and said yes so she called her fone and the # got registered on my cousins fone.

please don't be rude or make something stupid up for two points.

thanks in advance

-jessica

extra info:

date thing doesnt work cuz i cant go anywhere past 6 and itd be weird saying ill pick u up cuz he does live next door......

Answer 1

just talk.

he's nervous cos ur nervous.

if you ease up, he will too.

he probably thinks you're nervous, because you don't like being in his presence, which obviously isn't true.

Answer 2

Try something like texting him and saying:  "whats up?  bet you wish you knew how I got your number  lol"  see if he texts back then go from there.  Tell him you got it from your cousin (which is the truth)...he doesn't have to know your cousin used his phone to get it on purpose.  If you like him and he likes you then he is gonna be happy you got his number!!

Answer 3

idk he has been your neighbor for like 8 years get over his shyness just text him be casual lol you can't lose anything from doing that.

Answer 4

BWAHAHA you dont have to get your knickers all in a twist just send him a text hella late at night and be like "hey...you should come over."

he's not gonna care if you got his phone number hella incognito because h**l probably be too excited about gettin some action!!

Answer 5

Can you come over and help with some homework i got from the teacher please ?

Actually have some homework or it will get rather awkward.

Answer 6

ok, first please read the other answers before posting a question, i've answered questions like this 3-4 times in 3 days

now, just ask him! what's the worst thing that's gonna happen? h**l say he's not interested? oh well. the thing to remember while leading this life is live it without regrets. and it's not the guys job to ask girls if there's a possibility of relation ship, i don't know why it started like that, but girls have vocal chords too :)

Answer 7

are you a boy? because if not then show some boobage and he definately wont be shy.

Answer 8

figure out things he does that hes proud about, then he wont be as embarassed to do them with you.

or talk about.

Answer 9

ask him if he wants to come over and hang out

Answer 10

Humans..........If you have a curfew then I assume you are under 18 and should be worried about other things, like what you want to do in life and school, spending time with friends and family (if that is necessary for you.) Not worrying about some boy.  But if you insist just ask the freaken guy, or ask to hang out with him more.