Please help me out!?

Question

one of my close friends is starting to steal alot and the things that he's are getting bigger and more dangerous. i really care for him and don't want him to get in trouble, mega trouble. how can i stop it before it's too late?????

Answer 1

you need to confront him before it's to late. Explain to him that because you are his friend and you care that he might get in trouble. Do it A.S.A.P!! good luck

Answer 2

Any form of stealing of ANYTHING is a very bad thing. Someone how does this might have that type of personality that will not be budged by anyone, Not even their close friends. They are driven to steal for their needs. They are blind with greed and steal all they can. I know you don´t want to hear this ,but theres almost nothing you can do to someone with this corrupt habit. but if you must, you need to talk to him with extreme sympathy, use tears. He might feel bad for what hes doing and see how bad hes hurting you by stealing. Give him reason for not to steal and that if he need anything that you will try to help him out.

Answer 3

talk him out of it, and maybe if he steals petty stuff,  try and tell him to save up b4 he starts stealing

btw what does he steal?

Answer 4

1 minute ago

and the things that he's STEALING are...

TELL US THENN JEES

Answer 5

You can not change what a person does. But you might be able to influence him. Talk to him tell him it bothers you. Explain that it's wrong. Ask him things like how would you feel if someone stole your (bike) example?

Answer 6

Does he have a drug problem?  If so, he needs other help.  If not, let him know how much his behavior bothers you.  If he doesn't seemed bothered that your bothered, or if he doesn't show any signs that he wants professional help. Let it go... People don't usually change their ways.  Zebra's don't change their strips!  sorry!

Answer 7

well i wish u posted wots he's stealing! Try havin a 1 to 1 chat wit him-explain ur worried and you dnt want 2 c him arrested! Tell him to get a proper job coz in time he'll only and up inside! Dnt worry though coz stealing's only a minor crime he'd have to get caught like 10 times to go down anyway! (he'd get max 3 months and that wld properly get halved!) hope this helps x

Answer 8

Tell him exactly that. You care for him, and you don't want to see anything happen to him.  Threaten that YOU'LL call the cops if he doesn't stop; that'll open his eyes.

It sounds like an addiction like a drug.  Perhaps form an intervention with a few friends and family to talk to him, and stop his stealing.

Answer 9

If he has just started stealing then it pre supposes that he was not like that before so try and find out what the problem might be. May be he is into a habit that demands a lot of money which he can't raise on his own or may be he needs a lot of money to be able to create a false impression or still may be he has a psychological problem and needs to see a psychiatrist. Impress upon him to seek expert advice since just friendly advice won't do the trick. All the best

Answer 10

if i was u tell him u want a word....

tell him wt hes doing is wrong... and if he dnt wanna end up banged behind bars then he needs to stop what hes doing

tell him... ur his friend and u care for him and say u dnt wanna b visting ur m8 while hes banged up.. so tel him to rethink his actions!!!!!!

so he can av a life b4 its to late