Please help me please ?

Question

my mum has a very abusive husband who hits her etc he isn't nice to me or my brother. anyway me and my brother have always been there for our mum and she said she would never choose her husband over her children.

i asked my mum if maybe next year i could move out due to the husband, shes gone mad and is throwing me and my brother out and my yorkie too. she said we are only here for the money. i said your husband treats you bad we have never done that to you.

she said he comes first and he can do what he wants. shes throwing us out tonight.

is there any help we could get is it difficult living in your own house please help i live in uk.

Answer 1

You can go to a women's shelter temporarily.  They can provide you a safe environment for you and your brother, plus assist you with other resources such as counseling for you and your brother etc.  As for your mom, unfortunatelt there is not a whole anybody can do.  She has to be the one to get help for herself.  She may even foloow in your foot steps and seek help for herself at the shelter.  Good luck to you.

Answer 2

It is difficult, if you are under 18 you need to call Childline or social services right away. If you are an adult there is little you can do but find a place of your own or try and calm her down.

She sounds scared too, maybe she is locked into a cycle of abuse and feels dependent on her husband. Abuse does strange things to people. By tonight I think she will have calmed down. Is there a family member or family friend you can call that you trust to help. You need to contact someone who can help you right away.

Answer 3

It's not to hard as long as you stay organized and ontop of things you should be okay. how old are you and how old is your brother? Oh do you have family that can help you until you get on your feet? Cause if so i think you should talk to them. I hope you find somewhere to stay and I hope I helped I really with you the best of luck and I will pray for you to have a place to stay.

God Bless You  

Answer 4

Your mum sounds like a foolish woman, and one in a very abusive relationship. Some women will stay in a relationship rather than be alone - BIG mistake.  You don't say how old you and your brother are?

If you're minors, you could go to what we call in Canada the Children's Aid, if your of age, you and your brother should move out.

Answer 5

I slide, but i play hockey & i have good balance. But if you don't have good balance step ur feet up.

Answer 6

if you are young.. you should call the kids help phone if you have it... look it up.

but your mom might just be mad right now, she might come to you and say sorry.

other than that, i live on my own with my 19month old baby and im still in school. its not so hard.. its actually better i think but i have those days when i miss being at home with my family

Answer 7

oh my goodness! look i would set your mum down talk to her make her understand what she is doing to you and herself! and about her husband...i would call the police..I'm not joking he has got a serious problem!..a man hurting a woman epically his wife is just plain sick!!!! i really do wish you the best of luck!!

i hope every thing works out!

(please do tell somebody about what you mums husband is doing)

Answer 8

is she really throwing you out tonight? do you have anywhere you can stay?

you can call the cops.

Answer 9

You can report to the police about the abusive husband (and bad child care from both your mom and father-in-law).

But it's your choice about the latter.

Report your moms husband no matter what.

Answer 10

call child protective services or stay at a friends house.

Answer 11

im serious call 911 now as soon as you can tell them everything

good luck and do it

it will help trust me

Answer 12

I'm so sorry to hear this, no man should come before your kids. You should try to talk to your mom and make her reconsider this. Good luck

Answer 13

I'm am so sorry for your situation.  It may be a case of she is so terrified of him that she fears for her own safety and so will therefore agree to anything he says.

Is there any relative who could put you up temporarily? Or a friend.  Then depending on your ages determines what you can do next.

If you are both young you could seek help from social services.

Your local council may also be able to help you out.

Good Luck

Answer 14

Go to the Police!!! Poor babies :o(

Answer 15

if you are 18+ you could get a job of some kind then tell your mum that you can be fine by yourselves!! and just do it!!

Answer 16

CALL CHILDRENS HELP PHONE     [phone]

HOPE I HELPED<3 GOD BLESS<3

Answer 17

ugh idk about the UK but if your young enough i think you cant get kicked out. well thats here in the USA atleast and thats only of your under 18. why dont you move in witha family member or your dad or a really good friend if you can