Please help me.................

Question

i have had 3 miscarriages and my boy friend said to me that he cannot go through this again and he don't want to try anymore. well 5 weeks later shock i have missed my period and I'm getting pregnancy symptoms but I'm scared that i mite miscarriage again because its to soon after my other so i don't know weather to tell my boyfriend because i don't want him to go through it again because he really gets his hopes up as he really wants a baby what would you do?

Answer 1

I would tell him, because what if you do end up being pregnant and you tell him really late. He could get mad, dont keep things from him. :)  

Answer 2

Be honest. It might cause a rift in the relationship in the future if he ever finds out you lied or ommited information. Also, you should immediately go to the DR's and explain the situation, they might have some ideas on how NOT to loose the baby. Honestly, they will probably put you on bedrest because of your past. If you do miscarry or you aren't pregnant, you still need to find out WHY you miscarried so you don't have to go thru that agin. Good Luck, I hope you are pregnant and that everything will be ok.