Please help me? very difficult situation?

Question

I'm 22 year old girl and last week a guy i had a crush on for ages contacted me through face book and we met over the weekend and somehow we ended up in bed (I never sleep with any guy on the first occasion)...however ever since he has neither contacted me and my pride was so hurt that i deleted him off face book. i genuinely like this guy (He told me he had a girlfriend and yes stupid me still slept with him) i thought by us having s*x he will realise the great chemistry between us and would wanna go on? I'm hurting really bad and i need to get over him...any help?

Answer 1

ok some of these people are really harsh! jesus you asked for HELP not criticism.

well first: story of my life.

i always trust the wrong person, then get my hopes up

and i knooooow how much is sucks

well done on deleting him off facebook; great step .. now you are less likley to be tempted to meet with him again.

listen, if he hasn't dumped his girlfriend after s*x with you, you have to see things in perspective:

say he went out with you; how do you know he wouldnt cheat on you with another friend of his, like he has this time?

hope the brutal reality helps. and i hope all these other dropkicks leave you alone.

good luck!

x

Answer 2

life's full of sharks...  he took advantage of your naivety .. learn from it

Answer 3

You need to think this through yourself. You slept with a guy who wanted s*x. You think you are mature enough at 22 to judge character, and interestingly you get upset when people criticise you.

You did it, live with it, and move on.

Answer 4

what did he do that made you sleep with him that night? was it because you liked him? or because you wanted to be closer to you?

Answer 5

I was kind of in a similar situation lately only the guy didn't have a girlfriend so it almost feels worse that he didn't contact me (luckily I didn't go the fulll way with him)

Firstly don't feel bad over it, it can't be changed now, and if you genuinely like him then you did nothing wrong.

Secondly forget him. . . no one deserves to play second best to anyone else.

I know it's very cliche but time really does heal it!

Cheer up and good luck with finding someone right for you who actually deserves you x  

Answer 6

for him, might've been just one night stand... or after the s*x, he realised that you weren't the one... am sorry saying this, but if he was into you, would be in touch wi you by now. after all, he was such a bustard. if you liked him, it's gonna be difficult and take time to get over him, but you'll find better guy!!! good luck

Answer 7

Psychologically, forget him.  Try not to let the mundane facts of life block your paths of success.  

Answer 8

The guy wants a relationship with his girlfriend but he wants s*x with other people.

He isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you. He was never going to.

And now he has what he wanted from you, so he has no motivation to keep your friendship going. Unless he contacts you again hoping for s*x again.

This is what you do:

DON'T wreck their relationship by telling his gf everything. It won't help, and she'll only stay with him anyway.

Try to focus on the fact that you enjoyed the s*x.

Tell yourself: that guy's an a*****e, but i learned an important lesson.

And then don't do it again.

Answer 9

you know hun...305-503-0845  that's my number, give me a call. that guy sounds like "is not the first time i have been the last choice of a woman." I'll get you over it.

Answer 10

They say the only way to get over an old love is to find a new love.  Sorry that happened to you but don't be too down on yourself.  You've learned something from it and you had a good time.  Next time you'll do better.

Answer 11

Buy the Wave from Ann Summers, you'll forget all about men