okay I'm not sure what to do heres my story:Well I have a 3 year old daughter and 3 month old daughter mu husband has lately has been angry all the time and has mood swing and he gets mad and angry when my 3 month old daughter is crying and doesn't stop at first I thought it was colic,but I don't think it is, it might be teething she had been drooling and chewing on everything and she enjoys me rubbing her gums, well anyways about what I need advice about. i don't know what to do last night my husband was talking to his mom after I had told her that he gets angry at my daughters so she had a talk with him and he was telling her that he doesnt like not having communcation and gets frustrasted because all she does is cry and he don't know what she wants.He never really hold my 3 month old daughter or helps with anything I try really hard to do my best with my daughters,but he seems to think its my fault that she keeps crying because I baby her but I just do what any mother would do and comfort my baby. and with my 3 year old on monday she dropped 25lb weight on her foot and instead of hold ing her as she was hurting he sat her down and said in a tone voice see what happens I have told you over and over to not play with those weights and he tells me he was angry because he hates to see her get hurt,but you know he shouldnt express that to her or my 3 month old. Also my 3 month daughter stops crying when he leaves the room or during the day when hes not here I never have a problem with her having crying spills his mom told me that babies can sense stress and angier and all that and I hate seeing my babies she that.And he has been talking to me about joining the army because it will give my kids a better life but I'm not doing that because while I'm in basic training I don't want to get a phone call saying that one of my girls or both are in the hospital due to being shaken or hurt out of angier or something like that.i just need someones help and advice. I dont have too many friends and the one friend I thought I could trust at one time she told her husband the things I said and her hubby is friends with mine so it got back to him..I'm sorry that my question is so long but I just needed to get it out..I'm don't feel like I'm happy with him but I feel that I need to stay for my two daughters i would hate to see them grow up and not have their father around being that i would move to a different state then he lives in because I'm from cali and he's from Missouri..How is it being a single mom with kids and whats dating like, not that I want to start dating just want some advice and some stories would be great pleaseeee help I don't know what I should do..Thank you for your time!
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