Please help me with a dream i had last nite????it felt so sad?/????????????

Question

last nite a dreamt my mum was dying #in some parts she was dead# and i was crying so much there was 1 part i remember i was laying on her grave and crying so hard and most of my dream i could feel i could hardly breath. then in other parts she was alive but like not there like it was just her body was alive?????? it was so sad and i could even feel the sadness when i woke up and still now, like i was crying my whole dream.

i havnt spoke to my mum for a long time [she disowned me basically] she is a drug addict and the last time i saw her she looked like a skelitan. we have had our dissagreements but i still love her . please help????????????

Answer 1

This dream reflect the guilt you feel about the conflict with your mother.  Even though you say it was her choice to be a drug addict and disown you she is still you mother and your dream suggests you feel you let her down.  Likely there is further conflict in that you also have feelings of anger that she let you down.   At some point she will likely die before you due to her unhealthy lifestyle.  You dream just reflects the many conflicts her death will create for you.

Let me know if this helps.

Answer 2

I think your dream signifies the "death" of your mother when she was replaced by an addict. I know that she can't be the same person. (the zombie like state in your dream) Drugs change people. Even if you were still talking to her (if she were still alive in your dream) It wouldn't be mom. It would be the scary zombie that represents her addiction.

               Good luck. I hope things get better.

Answer 3

well usually someone dying in a dream means something bad is going away... maybe you are finally coming to terms with your situation. i cannot say for sure though because each person is different in some way, but actually death is a good thing

Answer 4

When leaving our family and home, even temporarily, we have to discover our independence, perhaps for the very first time, we need to stand on our own two feet without the support we are used to. While being a valuable and important voyage of discovery, this may also be hard to deal with.

It is inevitable that we will at some stage be separated from people we love. As well as coping with the loss, we are afraid of being lonely and having to become self-reliant when perhaps we lack the confidence to do so, and we may give vent to these fears in our dreams. Either way we may use dream time to come to terms with the changes and the feelings that they bring up.

When it is time to move on from an unhappy relationship, the grief of separation can be hard to bear, for all concerned, even if we know it's the best course of action. If a separation you were involved with happened long ago, but is still part of your emotional baggage, you may well deal with it in dreams.

Dreams about others dying may indicate a worry that they will die or leave us (in this case, she has already left you).

The tears symbolize spirituality and hidden emotions, which were above her grave. The realization of these things are starting to come to her and sink in.

To you, your mother's love for you is dead, but when you cry at your mother's grave, it is symbolizing how you can start anew, get a fresh start on your relationship with her, because she misses you too and loves you. Your tears soften her heart and her love for you that was buried down deep is reawakening. Talk to your mother and tell her that you love her so much, no matter what happens.

Answer 5

even me..

i ve dreamt about scary things.. like u had one.

its really hard to beleive when u wake up with everything u find good.

thas how the world is. but atleast it showed .. u much u love ur mom.

Answer 6

It's just the psychological stress in your brain.  It's strange how the human brain does to us in our sleep...  But in the end you will be fine.  I've had night terrors too.

Answer 7

Please go find her and try to help her, this is God building a bridge for u to cross.  There must have been times she showed u she cared, now it's ur turn!  She's still alive, do something!!!

Answer 8

I believe this dream reflects how you feel about your Mom, her condition and her lifestyle.  You see her as existing in a "living death."  She's physically alive, but she just not really all "there."  She is also not there for you.  In a sense, she is "dead to you."  So, this dream is an expression of all that, and it is your grief coming out through the dream.

Pray for her, and pray for God to fill the void your Mother has left in your life.  

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