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b4 u read this, yes my periods r regular and i should have started prolley the 18th of this month...On July 24th I had """PROCTECTED""" s*x with my friend then shortly after we were done doing our business we decided to go for round two. In the middle of round two the condom slipped off and he noticed, so he pulled out and like right after that ejaculated on my leg (His *** did not come in contact with my v****a). So just to be safe because me being the worrier I am I took at test on July 31 approximately one week after the protected s*x I have with my friend and it showed negative. Well the story does get deeper, and this is the main part of my story. I have a boyfriend we have been together 7 years and 8 months and we have a beautiful boy who will be 4 in October. So my boyfriend and I had """UNPROTECED""" s*x anywhere from July 31 to beginning of August till August 10th, we haven’t had s*x since the 10th...but he is the only person i have been with since what i said... My b***s began hurting really badly

around the 13th or 14th of Aug. and I just thought it was because I usually start around this time well I didn’t start by the 18th of Aug. so I took a home pregnancy test, it showed positive shortly after peeing on the stick. I have been worried ever since I seen them two lines. It’s not that I don’t want to be pregnant again it’s just I want to be pregnant by my current boyfriend that I will be with for the rest of my life! So I went to the doctor to get blood taken to see how far I am by measuring the HCG levels and that test result came back Aug. 21 saying I was 2-3 weeks pregnant according to the HCG levels. I told my doctor my situation with the friend thing to try and get reassured and she said according to what I said it is my boyfriend’s especially since we didn’t use condoms. I haven’t been on birth control for about 5-6 months now either. It took my boyfriend and I 6 months to a year of unprotected s*x to get pregnant with our

son we have now but we didn’t plan him. Now this time it has taken my boyfriend and I oh, since we had our son of unprotected s*x and that’s almost 4 years now. I thought my boyfriends sperm was just slow moving and wasn’t capable of getting me pregnant anymore but the doc said he is capable evidentially. So what I am asking is if you were me, given all the info I just gave you, what would you think and if you think my boyfriend is the dad? Please help me out here I’m tired of worrying myself sick, I guess why I think that other guy is a possibility is, because of pre-*** when the condom slipped off but I mean it was very UNLIKELY that there was any and yea you get me...help me out in what you think? And what is my conception date. thanks again for your time that you took to read this. I know cheating on my boyfriend was wrong but I had fount out he did it to me and we all do stupid things and mistakes when we are mad. so don't judge me for that

no one is perfect!

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  1. Oh my word..... first of all that guy is no "friend" if he would just have s*x with you at the drop of a hat, knowing that you have a boyfriend.  Second of all, I hope this is the first and last time you ever reproduce.  Please go on birth control if you are going to be so careless.  Your actions are now going to affect an innocent baby who did not ask for this.  You should consider adopting to a nice family who is morally, financially, and emotionally ready to raise a child.  This may sound mean, but that is not my intention.  You seriously need to take a step back and look at the reality of the situation.  It does NOT matter who the father is at this point, what matters is what you can do to give the baby the best life possible.


  2. It's fine. It's your boyfriends :-)

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