Please help me with this one?

Question

I have a problem with my boyfriend.

I love him but whenever I'm mad at him i hate him so much, hate that to the point that I would want to break up with him already. right now I really do not know what I truly feel for him. whenever I think that we would break up I would tend to tear up becuase I know that I love him just not so much.. and I know that I'll miss him.. but my feeling for him is just just the same anymore.. I don't feel the excitement anymore when were together, I don't know im confused with what I feel.. but then whenever I would tell him that I want to break up already he would never ever let me go.. even if he knows that I do not love him that much anymore.. he is aware of that but he does not want to let go of me.. i know that he love me but i just do not feel the same but i also love him..

WUA!! I dont know please help me..

Answer 1

You really have to make a decision. Break up with him or not?

It's all up to you. Think about this really hard.

Are you willing to let go of a person who loves you so much? I mean, would it be okay with you to see him date other girls and see him move on? Usually, girls regret this a lot so you should spend a lot of time thinking about this. Guys that love their girls so much are hard to find.

But based from what I read, I think the best is for you to have a cool off. It seems like you're not that happy anymore even if you love him. I think you really have to know what you want first. Maybe a cool off would help. You can't be lost like this. I think the cool off will give you time to think and time for yourself. I don't think you should force something that cannot happen.

Just pray that he will understand. Good luck.