Please help me with this...

Question

k my mom has some issues with my dads side of the family. my mom and dad hav been split up for a few years now. but lately shes gotten worse with my dads side of the family. like one time probably last year my mom came to pick me up from my dads house and my grama called my dad so she quickly got the phone and started argueing with her. on my dads phone at his house. and just a month ago i got a cell phone and i added my dads gf and my dads mom (my grama) so i was about to call my grama wen i found out she wasn't on so i was going to text my dads gf because my dads phone was broken and i found out that she was off to. so i didn't know what happen till i told my dad. and he told me that my mom has went on my dads phone and taken off so many people. even his gf (girlfriend) so i remembered how much she hated her and i told my mom about it and wen i told her that i thought she took her off my list she snapped at me and said y do i always blame her? but i dont always blame her. k the deal with my mom and my dads gf is that my dads gf lied to my mom to protect me and my lil sis. long story. but it was a good safe lie. so yah now everytime she gets the chance to ruin or whreck my dads family in some way she goes for it. my mom just today or yesterday now told my dad she wants him to go to court. and i was feeling down about it. becaused if my dad loses he ows her 70000$ dollars. and my dad dont have that kind of money. but if my dad wins he gets to keep me. so i just found out on my facebook that my mom went through my dads family. i dunno if she sent them anything. but im getting pissed and i dont know what to do cuz if i blame her for it she gets pissed off and tells me im grounded or sumtin. i try not to cry sometimes during the day. its just so hard now. i can make a huge fu cking list about her and what she has done. im sick of it i dont want to deal with it anymore. i need someone to talk to. what do i do? :'(

Answer 1

awe baby i'm so sorry you mother is like that. sounds to me like she's jealous that your dad has moved on, and she expects you to side you her on all things she needs to get over it and let you and your dad and his family have a relationship with you i hope you do get to stay with your dad as it sounds like your mom doesn't deserve you if it does go to court then your dad need to bring all that stuff up

Answer 2

You didn't say how old you are, but if you want to live with your father, you can talk with him about seeing an attorney to change custody.  You can talk to the Judge in court and let him know you'd rather live with your dad, and give the reasons why... for example... you could say you are uncomfortable with your mother because she is always argumentative and causing upset for others.  And that her behavior affects you.  You might also say you hope she gets help.

Hon, you can't change anything your mother does, but i do see how this could be upsetting.  Your mother acts like a spoiled child.  She is probably angry and upset over her divorce, and can't let it go.

sometimes adults need help, but they don't get it.  Instead they are just mean to others.

i hope things work out for you.

Answer 3

umm i really dont know (just try to be strong and know they both love you)

Answer 4

FOLLOW YOUR HEART.WHO DO U FEEL BETTER LIVING WITH,WHO MAKES U FEEL MORE HAPPY,WHO DO U FEEL MORE SAFE WITH?YOUR MOM SHOULD NOT B PLAYING THOSE KINDS OF GAMES,THE HATE FEELINGS SHE HAS TOWARD YOUR DAD IS  BETWEEN HER AND HIM,I C IF U CAN TELL THE JUDGE OR YOUR DAD'S LAWYER WHAT YOUR MOM DOES 2 U,CAUSE YOUR ALWAYS GOIN 2 HAVE PROBLEMS AS LONG AS U KEEP SEEING YOUR DAD,SO FIX IT ONCE AND 4 ALL,TELL YOUR DAD YOUR TRUE FEELINGS.