Please help me?????111?

Question

ill start off with a lil bit about me...

im 18yrs old (dont say im young)

i do actually own my house its mine not rented not parents just mine...

i have a very steady income

yes i am still in school only couple more months and ill graduate and im also part time at uni... have a major in animal nursing

im extremely independent have been since i was very young, every now and then my lil brothers live with me just for them to have a break...

i also look after my family im the only one that works as my dad just passed away my step dad is very ill and my mum is a carer for him... so my income is also to support them

i also play tonnes and tonnes of sport at representative levels

now the thing is for the last two years ive really been wanting a baby its not out of selfishness its because i believe i truly can handle it and i just want the joy that people seem to have and give the love i have...not much has been easy or fair in life but everything that happens i believe happens for a reason... ive always said i wouldnt have a baby unless i could bring them up in a steady and safe environment and i have all that =) the thing is though my partner and i have been trying for about one year now and well nothings happened... i know about all the times and things like that i havent spoken to my doctor everytime i want to i seem to get nervous... is there something i should do/ can do like should i take any tests to see if im fertile or not and how do i do that like do i just ask? and is there anything i can help the situation.... please dont just go on saying im silly for wanting any of this its my life and there is nothing i want more then to have a baby to love and protect and to bring up

Answer 1

dont do it. your only 18 go out and have fun and live experience life.

Answer 2

Don't worry I'm not judging you. With what you've said you sound like the perfect person to have a baby. I am also 18 and I'd say if you want to find out if your fertile or not you should just ask your doctor don't be nervous if this is what you really truly want then just ask. I understand how you feel completely. What I did was i just stopped trying. You should just have fun. Make everything interesting. Have fun fun and more fun. My pregnancy was a complete accident. We were just doing what we do having fun with it. Now look at me 3 months later and I'm due March 3,2009! I wish you the best of Luck!

Answer 3

you sound like you'll be a great father.

sorr a cant help best bet  is the doctor before its to late.

Answer 4

You're not silly, and if it what you want, it is your right to try and achieve it. You sound like you've given this a great deal of thought and further that you are willing to accept the bad with the good. So go for it, and it is my hope to you that you have a beautiful, wonderful family. Let those who would say otherwise eat dirt... :)

If you are having difficulty conceiving, then you really should seek medical advise. It could be you or your partner, or just the timing; but an evaluation and guidance by your doctor can be very helpful here. Sometimes the problems are more severe, but with a little bit of help from the medical community, the chances for success are much greater.

Again, good luck with your family!

Answer 5

If you have been trying for a year and know your fertile times and stuff it may be time to go to the doctor's honey.

If you are mature enough to have a baby, then you must be mature enough to go to the doctor's because once you are pregnant, you will see a LOT of them anyway. X  

Answer 6

You have to go to the dr, that's the only way you'll find out if you're infertile or not. Can't get around that.  And if you're set on having a baby asap, then please wait until you've graduated, having a baby is a huge responsibility.