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Question

hi,

my last period was 7 weeks ago but I'm nearly 3 weeks late if that makes sense, i've not been on the pill for over 2 years.

i done 3 days after my missed period and it said negative, 2 weeks passed and still no period so i done another test and it said negative again, it's been 4 days since i done the test and still no period not even signs of it coming like tummy craps and me bloating out or even getting stessy about everything!

I'm always regular always to date ( 4weeks 2 days apart) ALWAYS!! i'm only 20 and i do have another child but i found out when i was 4 months with him so i never took notice of any signs??

i've had no spot bleeding and i've been feeling a little bit yuck but nothing to scream about, i've had feeling in my belly for the last 3 months like a baby is kicking but it's probably wind! which ive had allot recently and my diets stayed the same!

i'm not fitness freak but i have my 5 a day and walk everywhere mainly all up hill so i get enough exercises since i live in a 5high block of flats and i'm at the top and i have no elevator so its all stairs!

I have been also getting very emotionaly like i'm in floods of tears watching the re plays of one tree hill!! whats that all about!!??

i suffer alot with back pain being a ex hairdresser but recently ive been getting alot of siatica (cant spell it)

I am in a relationship and have been for the last 2 years but it's only in the last year n half we've not been using protection we are ready for a baby but we wern't trying it was one of these things where when it happens it happens both of us never done the "right your ovulating let's get in on" we dont want to rush thing we just think when it happens it happens.....

please please help me i'm scared to go to the dr.s and him tell me something bad like i cant have children thats why im not coming on

please help me

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Answer 1

You really should go to the doctor and get checked out. It's better to know about problems early to try and deal with them. Good luck.

Answer 2

Go to your doctors, it is better to be safe than sorry. You never know though you might be making something out of nothing. While you are there also, why don't you not get him/her to do a blood test see if there is any evidence of you being pregnant there.

Answer 3

You really need to go get checked out by a licensed dr. - It's not normal to not have a period for such a long time, esp. is you've always been regular and off birth control for over 2 years.

It could be something fairly simple, but most likely you are preggers.

Don't delay going to the doctor. If you are afraid to go alone get your boyfriend (they allow them to come in) or your mother - someone you can trust to go with you.

Good Luck!  

Answer 4

Put yourself out of your misery and go to the doctor and get checked out.  Don't overstress yourself with something you are not even sure about.  Have them do a pregnancy test first (they will do lab work) to make sure you are or are not pregnant.  Once they get that out of the way and you aren't pregnant then they can find out what is causing your cycle to be missed.  Could be something simple.  

Answer 5

You could be getting false negatives. If I were you, I would schedule a doctors appointment. Something is going on and you should find out. Good luck with everything!

Answer 6

ok i was late on my period sa well. i had the same symtoms as u but when i did a test it was positive. dont stress ur self especially if its wot u both wanted. just go to ur docs and axplain to him. i was worried i couldnt have children for some reason and im only 21 but i was terrified so wen i found out i was pregnant i was over the moon.6-7 wks now. so good luck.

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Answer 7

Definitely schedule a doctor's appointment... they will at least do a blood test if your tests are coming out negative.

Answer 8

it took me 3 pregnancy tests and 3 missed periods for a test to show positive. i was 15 weeks preg but unfortunately had a missed misscarriage at 8 wks. i suggest keep testing an see a doctor, but sayin that when i saw a doctor (after 2nd missed period) an he told me i was not preg an it was normal to miss periods etc. you no ur body so do as u feel

Answer 9

hi,i think you need to go see your doctor,are you sure your not pregnant? go to your doctor and get him/her to examine you,then you'll know for sure whats going on.good luck :-))

Answer 10

Please don't worry, and don't be scared to go to the doc's, they will probably just do a blood test to test for pregnancy as you could very well be pregnant and your tests were not accurate.  If you have not come on for another reason then your doctor will try and find out what is happening and I doubt very much that you will not be able to have another child.

So try and make an appointment as soon as possible so you can stop worrying.  Really hope everything turns out well for you xx

Answer 11

Please please please see a doctor immediately.I have had this situation twice. The first time i was pregnant but for some reason didnt get a positive for weeks. The second time was an eptopic pregnancy , I had enough hormones to stop periods but not enough to get a positive result.I put off going to the doctors and had to have my tube removed. I am not trying to panic you but please see a doctor tommorow they can get a lot of answers by a blood test !

Answer 12

just go hun its always better to be safe than sorry, i had the same as u but with my third child no peirod for weeks done lost of tests and they all sed neg i was preggers try different types of tests (if u havnt already) or go to your docs try not to worry hun xxxxxxxx

Answer 13

Nobody is going to answer this.

its too long to read.

sorry.