Please help me!!i don't know what to do!!university or to look a work?...

Question

i'm 23 years old,i'm italian (sorry for my english :-P ) i'm confused!!!3 months ago my life is changed because now i'm single..before i thought my life whit him (he is a soldier) with a anything job ..now i'm feel empty, without a road (understand?)..i don't like to do a waitress...i don't know!!

Answer 1

23 years old. I think study (full time) and waitress (part time/casual)  for four years. Poor student for a 4 year course. Then at 27? Still young enough to do anything. Make an appointment with a university liason officer for a good discussion. They will help you find something. It may be a good time to go to another city to do this, I don't know.  If you have an empty road in front of you, why not take it?

You know, once you start to study something, you can always drop out and stop the course. Get a real job. Or change course. That's always okay. Talk to someone you don't know.  

Answer 2

I would start by making a list. Goals, interests and things that you like for yourself. Not with anyone else in mind, no relationships, just you. You need to find your path and figure out what makes you happy before you can be happy with someone else.