Please help my dad won't let me do any activities in school because i quit piano plz help?

Question

please help my dad wont stop scolding me and calling me things and he FORCE me to practice everyday! ='( he makes me feel so bad.

i cant do anything or go anywhere (im not allowed to anyway)

im about 2 turn 13 and its been 3 yrs since hes been doing this.

i literally HATE him and he doesnt wanna understand.

HE JUST DOESNT CARE! i dont understand please i have to go through this anynore and i need some advice!

thank you so much =(

Answer 1

You are in a difficult situation. Can you talk to your dad and tell him how you feel? Maybe you can compromise a little with him. Tell him you would be willing to return to piano after a year if he will let you do some things that you would like to do. Obviously, it is very important to your dad that you learn to play the piano. But his money is going to waste if you hate to play the piano. Ask him to put his money to better use by putting it to something you truly enjoy, whatever that may be.

Answer 2

If you Chinese your going to have a pretty harsh time, LIKE ME. Since I have quit piano, my dad didn't care at first, but for the past year he has been constantly bitching about anything I do wrong!!! He also NEVER admits he is wrong and ALWAYS says the most stupid comments possiable in the English language just to p**s ME OFF. I'm not exaggerating at all. In your situation, I would do an activities such as something academically or sport oriented that you would do very well on to spark his interest and move on from there. As for the practicing thing, I was much more talented in piano and would never need to practice piano until one hour before the lesson and not get yelled at by my piano teacher too badly. But to be very honest, after I quit piano at one of the highest benchmarks, I actually really appreciate my parents pushing me so hard as I received many awards and trophies. I can really relate to you as i understand the feeling when you probably didn't practice your pieces or scales as much as you should have and have to deal with your piano teacher which was a weekly h**l appointment for me, but if your still in middle school, you shouldn't quit since you should have time, and the piano competitions are great as practice for boosting your confidence level in school. If your in high school then you should really try to reason with your dad, and have some reasonable excuses even through he is being a bad parent. If reasoning doesn't work as I'm sure you have probably already tried, try to convince your mom and really talk to her about how your aggressive father is treating you. If your mom is also like your father like in my situation, I had to finally lie to her by telling her all of my Chinese friends quit piano where I invited them all over to my house to lie to my parent's. They were lieing but I had to do the same for them. If this doesn't work your parent's mus be really stubborn and I can suggest something that is only after you have had enough one day which sounds like your getting very close too. Talk to your piano teacher at a panio lesson, if your parents sit in on your piano lessons, your going to have to call him/her and just tell your teacher directly that you just DON"T LIKE PIANO!!!!! your teacher should understand. Good Lcuk!!!!