Please help! no one to talk to.

Question

okay i asked this earlier

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjjtJ48YhoUPzHOmwvJcMiYgBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20080808050123AA8wzcc

and i got some good answers.

so i call him okay and say that i'm sorry that i just feel under appreciated. he says i'm sorry too. i asked him to come home after his family thing so we could talk he says 'yeah i'm coming home to get changed, i'm going out again. i'll make it up to you on saturday.'

what got me mad is that if i was out i wouldn't be able to enjoy myself worring that he was upset. but it bugs me that he can go out without a care in the world. i told him i don't want him to make it up to me tomorrow i wanted him to make it up to me now. he didn't say anything to that he just goes - i'll be home later.

his family thing finished at 9 so he should have been home about 9.30pm its now 11.20 uk time and he hasn't come back or called me. i'm really scared things have never been like this before. i want to call or text him i just don't know what the best thing to do is.

Answer 1

could he be see,n someone else?

Answer 2

awww you poor thing hunny!!

il just text him and say something like u had a good time? or you you like a hot chocolate when you get in?

something like that he will be more likely to reply to and should feel sorry for upsetting you. if you  just text where are you or why arent you home? he may try to wind u up further by not coming home or not replying.

obviously what you said to him earlier has had some impact but men tend to go sulk rather than apologise properly, im glad your standing up for yourself and not being a doormat

it might be hard but try not to call him or text him more than abour 2/3 times. if you guve him tough love hel know hes gonna have to impress you to get in your good books again.

how about whilst your waiting put a film on and eat some chocolate something distracting- u could ring a friend.

im sure hes alright at this time though and i doubt hel be upto no good, hes probably just trying to prove his independence as blokes dont like being bossed about (as they put it)

good luck!!  

Answer 3

try not to worry too much coz he may find you a bit clingy...not that you dont have a point. men are strange creatures and we argue over stupid things coz we need to know things to make us feel secure but they dont like talking coz...well to be honest i dont know .me and my fiancee had the same problem when he was alive, but we always sorted it out after i cried my heart out..it always scares them into surrendering,lol, but seriously its just the way we two sexes are,cant live with eachother cant live without eachother...dont worry,youll make up when he gets back

Answer 4

My dad did that to my mom a lot. He normally would go drinking and not come home till wee hours of the morning. Being that drunk.. he may cheat. My dad would say he had to help a Friend or family member out and he would go help but take off after that..and by calling him he will get upset with you and by drinking he won't be thinking straight when he talks to you. Drunks never make good listeners.

Answer 5

could he be seeing someone else?? hopefully not. but if he wont come home to talk and sort things out do you really want to be wh someone like that  

Answer 6

I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST GET ANOTHER GUY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

he might be woth some1 eles