Please help...............?

Question

Okay, a couple of years ago I told a girl I had a crush on our priest (we're episcopalian). I don't want a relationship with him...eww..he's older than me. Well, I'm pretty sure she told him & his wife & probably other people. The all treat me pretty badly. Well, anyway, I was just perusing facebook & saw that they're friends. What?!? Why would you trust/like someone that would tell such a private thing to you? What was my "friends" motivation for telling them? Why would she stab me in the back & pretend like nothing happened? I'm so mad & hurt. Grrrrr!!!

Answer 1

er so what if they are friends on facebook, it doesnt mean anything has happened or that shes said anything.

Answer 2

that person was not a friend and was not thinking about what would happen to you .

Answer 3

Find a new friend and a new church.  She is not a true friend to you to do something like that.  If she told the priest, you can bet she told plenty of others as well.  Good Luck.

Answer 4

I don't know if are married or how old you are , but I've been around a while.  I trust no one but the one beside me every night.I hope one day you will find someone like that, you can trust with your life.  People, family, and so called friends are going to talk and stab you in the back.

That's a fact, sad but very true.

Answer 5

shut up

Answer 6

You assume she told them, but you are not sure.... Maybe she didn't say anything at all.

Answer 7

calm down. so what if that happened? its already done, you cant change the past. learn to accept it. and anyway everybody in the local area is friends on facebook.

p.s. THE PRIEST HAS A FACEBOOK!?

Answer 8

Girls canot keep much secrets in their mind . Especially this kind of stuffs they likes to share with others . so share things before sharing think twice .:) cheers