Please help serious question?

Question

I have been dating this women for 6 weeks now and everything was going great until last night. We had spent the day out on the boat with friends and to say the least we had a few to drink. When we got home last night we were going at it (sexually) when she called me her ex boyfriends name. I immediately got up and walked into the other room. I asked her to stay in bed and not to talk to me. She fell asleep after a little bit and I decided to pack her things (maybe out of haste) and wrote in big letters on a piece of paper by her things MY NAME IS ----- !.

I fell asleep on the sofa until she woke up at 0200 and she asked me if I wanted her to leave, i said nothing. she kept on asking me and saying she was sorry but I just had little to say. As she walked out I made the comment that " A drunk persons words are a sober persons thoughts " and I truly believe in that statement. She has been calling me all morning but I ha vent answered the phone. I have replied to a few of her texts but I just dont know what to say. Can anyone help me to figure out am I being to hard on her or doing the right thing ?

Answer 1

You are being truly childish and petulant. It's a wonder she is even willing to stick around after your little tantrum. It is you, not she, who needs to

ask for forgiveness.

Answer 2

Geez, man, my own mother used to call me by my sister's or my brother's name a lot when I was a kid, and she was stone cold sober.  It was a slip-up.  And only once.  Let it go.  You could be losing out on a great person.

Answer 3

"just me" is right...

just let it go.... thinks like this may happen...and it doesn't mean she's thinking about her ex.

I think you are over reacting ;)

Answer 4

This is the language section. If you want an answer, you may want to put your question in the "relationship"section.