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Question

please dont answer stupidly as i am VERY self consious about this, and its stopping me from doing sexual activities with my partner :(

ok well my v****a.. seems.. un normal i guess i could say..

everything sticks out?

its horrible, disgusting and i hate it soo much.

i never want anyone to see it, as i am soo self consious about it and worried what people might think of it.

please help, and please. no stupid answers.

thanks :)

Answer 1

When I watch s*x videos, I see all kinds of v****a. They all differ in size, color, etc. What matters, is that you enjoy doing s*x with your mate. You have to accept what is God-given and enjoy it.

Answer 2

I'm sure your partner wouldn't care and might not even notice. If it bothers you that much there is a surgery to correct it called labiaplasty.

Answer 3

you just have a naturally looser v****a. totally normal. if you're very self conscious and paranoid you can go to your gyno.

chances are it's 100% normal and all is fine, but if not, they see hundreds of vaginas, they will surely know if it is abnormal.

good luck! hope you resolve your self-consciousness  

Answer 4

Sorry if my answer seems a little, um, blunt, but here goes:

Penises are ugly.  All veiny and wierd and bulby on the end with ugly balls...kinda gross, really.  But...we love our men and we don't actually think "ugh, look at that thing."  It belongs to the guy we're with and its part of what creates intimacy between two people.

OK...So...well, female genitalia is also kind of ugly. (my opinion, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say that may would agree with me on this.)

And, again...sorry for being sort of blunt...But there's a reason they call it "bumping uglies."  (Sorry for the sophomoric language, but it was to prove a point.)

I'm a straight female, but I'm still going to say that most guys don't see what they think is a "pretty v****a" often, if ever.  Like one other person said here:  They are all different.  Some are lippy.  I'm guessing that your inner lips are kind of bigger than what you think is, "normal," but rest assured: this is verrrry common.  The inner lips are called the "labia minora."  If you aren't too squeamish, google image that word (since its a medical term, you are likely to get medical pictures and illustrations as opposed to wierd p**n sites) and you'll see that the v***a just isn't a real pretty site to behold.  

Think of your external genitalia as an area for sensation, not as a visual turn-on for your parner.  At the rist of sounding immature:  Show him your b***s!  Your butt!  Hope that helps!!!!

Answer 5

Dont worry bout it .. You cant change it.. So dont worry.just do stuff for a little while in the dark until you get confident with him.. or do it under blankets. he will be probably be real horny and if there was anything wrong he wont be able to notice feeling you.. but your probably normal .. so dont worry.. get a doctor to check you out.. just so you can be sure!  

Answer 6

Every v****a is different! If you are comparing yours to pornstars etc don't because these are often airbrushed. You shouldn't let this hang up get in the way of yours and your partners fun. There are things about all  of us we wish we could change but the simple truth is that we can't.

I'm sure it is not unnormal - and if it is only your partner seeing it then I hope that he would make you feel as comfortable as possible.

Answer 7

Only if you like Western girls poke the holes on parts no holes to be poked for hoop jewels. The hair to all grow is most thing to make happen. It important to womans healthyness to keep hair. Get wand stick for shower. I now tell the people. You air dry body to,out of shower room? No clothes or hanging dress only on many hours every day. The man will love you for this fullness of womanhood. He like you special.

Answer 8

men generally arent looking down there when they have s*x on the mind. and i assure you, yours is probably more normal then you think. dont worry about it!  

Answer 9

Women's genitals come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

Some have big, puffy outer lips and tiny little inner ones that can't even be seen without spreading their legs and outer lips both... some have smallish outer lips and inner lips that stick out firmly from them or hang loosely... some have one lip that's one shape and the other lip is completely different.   Some have really big or really little clitorises.

Knowing and accepting your unique "genital geography" isn't something mothers usually pass along to their daughters... but it's something every woman should learn.

It's very unlikely that yours are *not* perfectly normal, and you should get to know them well and learn to love them.   They're a very important part of what it means to be *you*.