Please help!..she left me?

Question

17 months we have been together..then we had a big argument..she then later broke up with me by texting me the next day..i tried calling her but she didn't answer..the following day i found out shes dating a guy we meet at a party a week before. Now this guy is a drunk...he was passed out at the party. How can she leave me for someone like that? I drink but not to get drunk...so maybe she will come back since their relationship started fast..it will end fast yaknow>? please help me with some advice..and dont tell me to move on..17 months is a long time to just let go..i don't know how she did

Answer 1

The relationship[ collapsed. Join the club of the millions and billions that has happened to. You Wilek survive. Do NOT take her back. Date others. It is not the end of the world. She has the right to be dumb. However, see if you can take off a few months and go into a relationships group to lean how to work them. Did you label her, scream at her,. etc? If so, it does not whelk. Good luck. Someone else will love you better.  

Answer 2

hey - she is still in love with you 17 months is a long time - you need to take a stand and walk firm - do you love her ? do u want to be with her ? then go get her grab a rose on your way to her and tell her whats in your heart - not your head ,she is in denial and afraid to come back - dont wait for her go get her declare your love to her and tell her that in a relationship there is arguments communication is the key and sometimes this is how we get to know oyr partners thru arguments - good luck hope this helps dont forget your rose on the way to her  

Answer 3

You drink but you dont get drunk..? Have you ever wondered how much nicer a person the other guy is when he's sober. It was a party remember and he had every right to be drunk. So his drunkeness is out of question. Be a good boyfriend and she wont run away.

Answer 4

HONESTLY!!! we girls can't just break it up like that if we don't have replacement and for sure she was cheating on you while you were still together so just let her go man! she's not worth it! find someone who ise better than her and show her what shed lost man.. okay? HATE TO SAY THIS BUT MOVE ON AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE... YOUR WORLD DOESN'T EVOLVE AROUND HER.  

Answer 5

She broke up with you by texting you? She didn't answer your calls and is dating a drunk, and you don't want us to tell you the obvious. What DO you want us to tell you?

What advice would YOU give someone else with the same set of circumstances? Move on - anyone who is so gutless to text you to break off a 17mth relationship is not worth knowing, let alone being your partner.  

Answer 6

she probably already with him before hand if she has his number. and dude if she moved on that fast. she dont care about you. you can call her and beg like a man with diginity i guess.  

Answer 7

i think u should give it some time .. if he's as bad as u say then she'll leave him soon

she's trying to teach u a lesson .. tell her that u learned ur lesson and mean it !!  and stop doing the stuff she doesnt want u to do

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Answer 8

Good Lord D !!! You dont love her. You are just pissed off that she dumped you for someone else. No girl leaves their guy over an argument. In that case there wont be anything called relationship in this world.

She  was waiting to dump you and she did it at the right time. Move on with your life.. find a better  woman that makes you happy. Its her loss.. She would have done it even if you were with her for 50 months. So stop drooling over the past and look forward to meet the new challenges in life .

Answer 9

You best search out your true feelings and then evaluate your strengths and capitalize on the strongest points.