Please help?!?!?!????????any ideas?

Question

I am really paranoid and seem to care a lot about what others think of me, also i have no self confidence. Is there a way i can get over this?

i would be grateful if you could help out - please.

Answer 1

I really think a counselor could benefit you. There is nothing wrong with seeking the help of a qualified counselor. Also reading some self help or motivational books could help.

Answer 2

called social anxiety,  do things out the norm, u have to make yourself get out and socialize  

Answer 3

Simple, just read a self-confidence book at Barnes and nobles.  Also, Get a Starbucks cappuccino while your at!  

Answer 4

You might have a personality disorder.  If you do therapy could help.  If you don't it could be a phase.  It really depends on your situation.

Answer 5

go tell your doc, get some anti-depressants and counseling..or if that is extreme then just think about this...

If you don't like something,change it, if you can't ,change the way you think about it....(someone famous said that)

and its true. when you realize most of your self doubt is all in your own head and not in others you'll be better off. no one focuses more on you that YOU.

F%#@ what people think, do what you want, you'll be a leader, even if you have no followers, people will respect that that you don't have fear and don't give a f#%k about their opinion..trust me and if you can't make yourself feel that way..pretend..and soon you will. when i stopped caring and started doing what I wanted regaurdless of the crowd People started respecting that ..even seeing me as "cool" or whatever...don't let people get to you

Answer 6

yeah is there any reason u r paranoid?