Please i need help about my friend who does drugs?? i dont want 1 or 2 answers..i need help please!?

Question

im 15 and a sophmore and my bestfriend is turning 16 in 3 days..were completely opposite but...the problem is that she has gotten drunk,smoked pot and such in the past...then we became friends and she calmed down on that...but lately she has had alot of stuff going on...like relationship problems...family and such..well i take the same bus as her and she has a friend who always gets prime time....i think that's what the cigarette is called..but i think she may be doing something other than just this...shes getting stoned and such...and i noticed that we had our first fight ever when she started doing she recently started doing this again which was last week...and yes she asked me if i wanted to smoke..but she didnt force me..im not like this..i have never done drugs or anything....how can i tell her to stop??? and where still in our first fight..i really think its the drugs.....please i need help....

Answer 1

Try to talk to her, and if that doesn't help then just give her some time and maybe that will help her understand that you're just trying to help her. If you feel the need, get some professional help for her. She's your friend, so what you know is best for her.

Answer 2

1 you have never smoked pot/weed so how do you know its that bad?

#2 weed makes you stupid and lazy. if she was drunk that might of made here fight you but if ur high you can hardly bicker. most peeps that smoke are really really chill and laid back about every thing.

#3 a prime time is a cigar. and not a very strong one more of a girly thing.

#4 dont trip unless shes doing crack coke or meth. or to much acid or shrooms other then that try not to mess with her.

just be cool = )

Answer 3

You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves...My advice talk to a school counsellor, get some information to give to your friend about the after effects of using recreational drugs. Tell her that you care about her and her wellbeing and that you think its in her best interest to stop using.  If she refuses to seek help then I hate to say it but its best to cut ties with her and find a new friend. You don't need people in ur life who participate in such acitivites, there will always be pressure on you to try that stuff and others might start to associate you with her decisions.  Ever hear the phrase guilty by association.  continuing to hang out with someone who does such things puts your reputation at risks and thats definitly not something you want to do...Trust me on that. Its hard to rebuild your reputation because you were associated with someone who made such choices. People will assume you do what she does.  

Best of luck

Answer 4

She has some domestic and psychological problems.

She needs to meet a psychiatrist ASAP.

I feel Hypnosis will rescue her.  

Answer 5

hahaha sucka

Answer 6

Pot is definitely not something that you should worry about, considering how many WORSE drugs there are out there, seriously. My friend used to be on probably some of the worst drugs,and yes, it can be really hard to deal with. Sometimes weed really helps people to calm down and deal with their problems, and just makes them relax. Drugs can cause your moods to change, and it does suck...a lot. Try talking to her about it, but don't force her to change her ways just let her know what's best. It's worth a shot...especially since pot can be considered the "gateway"drug...you don't want her to get into anything else!!! Hope this helps! Take care.

Answer 7

Substitute the drugs with lollies!!

Answer 8

She will not listen to you no matter what you say. I would talk with a school counselor as they have the training. This is important enough to risk the friendship. The friendship will return at a later date. Not easy, but important to do, as her friend.

Answer 9

i went through the same thing once and the hardest thing to realize is that some ppl don't want to be helped and have to hit rock bottom before they are willing to stop. however one thing you could do is to let them know you love them but don't like what there doing to themselves and if they continue on the path their on then you can no longer be friends. sometimes it helps to give people ultimatums to put things back in perspective. and if they choose to continue then you know exactly where you stand in that persons life. and if they need help stopping its a good idea to be informed on rehabilitation techniques/practices. good luck!