Please i need help shes under his spell?

Question

I had a best friend, he used to be my best friend until he chose some girls over me. i have this other friend whos a girl and we've known eachother a fair amount of time we're great friends. now Recently, my exbest friend and my friend they've been going out. But what she doesn't seem to realise is that hes a total a*****e. He dates other women and other men all at the same time. He tells her how much he loves her and yet hes a Bisexual 4 timing mother F***er! shes in total love with him, i tried telling her today but she wouldn't listen. She says she loves him and shes not gona listen to what i say.

How can i get her out of the spell, she does anything he says to do, and it's not right. Pleas help, thanks.

Answer 1

Honest advice - leave it alone - she is ugly enough to learn from her own mistakes - she'll find out soon enough.

You try to intervene and it will all backfire on you and you will be the only loser - just butt out of it.

Answer 2

Well, there's not much you can do. She'll have to figure it out for herself. Most people don't like to hear bad things about people they love, they want to believe they're good. You tried to tell her, but I wouldn't push it otherwise your gonna loose your friend.

Answer 3

If what you say is true, she will find out for herself.   Be there when it falls apart.

Answer 4

there's not really much that you can do. except sit back, let whatever is going to happen happen and be there to help pick her up when he drops her like a bad habit.

Answer 5

hiya james,there is not much you can do if she won't listen to you.she is going to have to find out the hard way.all you can do, is be there for her,to pick up the pieces.and be that shoulder for her to cry on.if you try and split them up, even if you know its the right thing to do.you will just turn her against you,and she will blame you in the end.good luck.xx

Answer 6

sorry to say but life sucks let her make her own mistakes and learn form them

Answer 7

well my advise to you is to let her find out in her own time ..you can try telling her until you are blue in the face ...she is looking through rose tinted glasses at the moment but she will wake up and then watch the sparks fly ..if you feel you can be just be there for her ....if not get on with your life and let them get on with it ...best of luck in what ever you decide to do